Precautions taken before anal?
Posted Tue May 24, 2005 10:34 AM
I don't mean psyching yourself up to have anal, I mean the more physcial aspects.
Do you use an enema/laxitive/suppository to "clear out"? Do you stretch yourself/partner out a bit before insertion, etc.??
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Posted Wed May 25, 2005 01:24 PM
Ow, hope she's all right now. I think that's the main reason my girl doesn't want to try it.
Posted Wed May 25, 2005 03:16 PM
The first thing that you have to understand is that your lady friend is
going to be apprehensive about anal sex. It has been drilled in their
heads, from a young age, that anal sex is a painful experience and it is
to be avoided at all costs. Alot of potential candidates have been soured
to the experience forever, due to the inexperience of a lover who just
tried to jam their penis in their partners anus.
I learned my method through my many experiences in the country of Turkey.
It seems alot of the chicks over there are taught that they must remain a
virgin until they are married. They then proceed to only give blow jobs
and partake in anal sex so that they can preserve their hymen. They get a
taste for anal and begin to love the experience. The anus has more nerve
endings than any other part of your body so anal sex can be more
pleasurable than straight vaginal sex. This is the reason that the broads
in europe will try to pop a finger in your ass while giving you oral.
I always start the method in the same manner: while partaking in doggie
style sex. While in this position, the anus is clearly exposed to you.
Like a painter with a blank canvas, you are ready to create a
masterpiece. The most important thing that you need to understand before
attempting any anal action is that the anus is a muscle. Like any other
muscle in your body, it must be properly "warmed up" before partaking in
any activity. It's the same reason we stretch our legs before we run a
marathon. To prepare your body for the rigors of the task at hand.
So you are giving it to your female friend in the doggie position. You
always want to wait until she is really excited before attempting to
begin the method. It has been my experience that chicks will pretty much
go along with anything when they are at a high level of arousal. At this
point, make sure you have some sort of lubricant handy. Vaseline and KY
are the best case scenario but in a pinch, I have used saliva or some of
my partners love juice.
Slowly, and I do mean slowly, take your index finger and place it outside
of her anus. Begin to play with the outside of her hole. A few droplets
of wetness should occur in the area. Slowly, press your finger in her
anus to your first knuckle, and no further. This is where you will need
patience. Just leave your finger in there, as still as possible. This is
the portion of the method that I like to call "Steeping like a cup of
tea." Basically, your finger is going to allow for a natural relaxation
of her anus. Once you have noticed her anus slightly loosening, begin to
slowly move your finger around in a circular motion. Again, do not go
past the first knuckle. At this point, it is safe for you to push your
finger in to the next knuckle. Let it steep like tea again for about
another minute until you repeat the process of moving it around in small
circles. It is right about this point that your partner will start to get
mildly excited about you playing with her asshole. Don't overplay your
hand, my friend. It might be your first reaction to pop your finger out
and jam your penis in. This would be a big mistake. Slow and steady wins
the race. Slowly place the rest of your finger in her anus. After about a
minute, slowly begin to remove your finger from her anus. Whatever you
do, and take it from a professional, do not look at your finger. I don't
care if she just got out of the shower five minutes before you started
doing her, do not look at your finger. Nothing good can come from it,
After you remove your finger, look down at your partners anus. It should
close up slightly, but the opening should still not collapse completely
on itself. If it stays open somewhat, you know that your are well on your
way to her anus being completely relaxed. At this point, you need to make
a judgement call. And you must be honest with yourself. This is the part
where you must decide if you should begin to loosen her up with a second
finger or begin the steeping process with your penis. If you penis isn't
dramatically wider in circumference than two fingers, then you can skip
this next step. A good rule of thumb is if your penis is over five inches
in diameter, repeat the afforementioned steps with two fingers vice one.
At this point, you are ready to enter her with your penis. This is the
tricky part. A basic rule in life is that the closest way between two
points is a straight line. But not in this case. Before you attempt to
enter her, drop a nice dab of KY right on her asshole. She should have a
pretty good idea of what is about to happen. Exit her vagina and place
the head of your penis on the top of her asshole. Apply slow and steady
pressure to the top of your penis. It will slowly begin to enter her and
eventually the head will pop into her anus. That is my favorite part, for
whatever reason.....when the head of your penis plops in. Moving along,
begin the steeping process in one inch increments of your penis until you
are completely inside of her. Take a minute to gain your composure and
get yourself ready for what is about to happen. There is no turning back
for either of you at this point. Slowly begin thrusting. When i say
thrusting, I don't mean that you start longstroking her. Begin moving
your penis back and forth in the same one inch increments that you used
to enter her. Once she is able to take your entire penis going in and out
of her anus, you are pretty much free to do as you like. You can bear in
and screw her as hard as you desire as you have properly prepared her
anus for the rigors of anal sex.
Posted Wed May 25, 2005 04:54 PM
one of my first bf's did the same to me,not sure if its an inexperienced guy thing or not but he tried to stick it there and it hurt alot,i wasnt expecting it and wasnt experienced at the time or maybe its a guys way of trying to get us to do anal
Posted Wed May 25, 2005 05:48 PM
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Posted Thu May 26, 2005 12:46 AM
No offense to any of the black Sfers but what makes me hurt just watching it is when I see a black guy with a cock as thick as my fist and as long as my forearm take his dick and pump all of it into her. I'm just waiting for the time he pushed too far up her ass and she spits out his load...
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Posted Thu May 26, 2005 12:49 AM
With anal it is a bit cruel to hold kissing back in return, but due to the justification for refusal, I'd ask for a second opinion...from her