So, what's with the bar pickup?
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 07:50 AM
Personally, I find the thought of getting picked up at a bar baffling and somewhat repelling, and I know I'm not the only woman who feels this way. Not that I consider it morally wrong, especially if it happens between two consenting adults, but the thought of having casual sex with someone who's been drinking when I've also been drinking escapes me. I've never done it and don't think I'm going to start doing it anytime soon, but I would be interested in knowing opinions on why this is still a valid option in a time where there are so many concerns about STDs. How many of you, if any, have started a relationship with someone you've picked up at a bar?
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 08:29 AM
wear protection, and hope for the best. std's are scary as hell but your other option is to sit home and whack it i suppose.
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Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 01:42 PM
I guess I should clarify my position on this subject (or I may have some explaining to do at the bar later tonight).
My comments concerned casual sex with strangers you meet at bars, period.
Ok, that's it; please carry on with your squabble.
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 01:46 PM
Your soulmate might be sitting right next to you having a drink and you will never know because you already decided that any man in a bar is bad.
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 02:30 PM
I have and have been with her for 3 years.
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Posted Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:11 PM
( ! ) pick a cheek & nibble away !
Posted Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:48 PM
LOL that was fucking awesome.
Idk man, if you have sex with someone at a bar, so be it, get a STD, so be it. You can get a STD from a person anywhere, not just a bar. Only live once. So you should have the most fun you can before you die. no I never done it before.