How To Give Head?
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 04:31 PM
Usually when my girl comes over we mess around for a few, and about 1 outta 3 times she will go down on me. Now, this is somewhat pleasurable, but not once have I had an orgasm while she was doing it. She isn't bad, like she doesn't bite or anything, but she has a really bad gag reflex, and I've actually seen her tear while giving me head because it is that bad. Now, I don't want her to get hurt or anything so I usually just ask her to stop, and when she leaves I have Blue Balls.
Now recently we've been talking about it, and how she said she feels bad that she isn't good at giving head and can't get me off. So she asked me what she was doing wrong. At this point, I just said, "why don't you just join SF.com, you can just get tips and advice", she thought it was crazy. So she just pushed the question again, "what am I doing wrong?" I told her that she wasn't going deep enough, and that's because of her gag reflex. Then just told her the rest will come with experience. But she still wanted to know how to be better. So, I figured, whenever I need sexual advice, I turn to the lovely boys and gals at SF.com.
So, do any of you have any tips for my girl? Anything she can do to get better at it? She really wants to be better, she has my interests in mind. What do you gals, or guys, do when you give head? Include what you do with your tongue, hands, and lips if you can please.
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 05:17 PM
Also, you're asking your gf to deep-throat. That's an advanced technique that takes effort, preparation and practice to master, and I wouldn't recommend it if she's just learning the basics. Google that to understand it as well.
Dfficulty: Moderately Easy
Things Youíll Need: Love
Close your mouth around his penis and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist mouth.
Hold on to his penis, use your tongue flicking over the head, lick the head all over. Make sure you use the flat of your tongue to explore more area.
Gently suck on the head. Suck his penis into your mouth and at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around the head.
Pay more attention to the underside of the penis, as it's the most sensitive part. The more you explore this are with your tongue, the more you'll find him electrified with joy.
Run your hands gently over his inner thighs as you move your mouth up and down his stick.
Lower your mouth over his penis and the trick to deep throat is to breath out as you are to taking in as much as you can. I know this is a hard job , but just try to concentrate on your breathing at the same time to avoid the unexpected urges you may get.
Pump him gently as your mouth rides his hot swollen penis. And as you suck him deep into your mouth, place your hand around the lowest part of his stick.
As a compliment for your man, gently massage his testicles. Squeeze them gently, hold them, run your finger nails over them. Play with them carefully.
Wrap your hand moderately firm around his penis, keep your mouth sucking him deep, keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster... Keep stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he explodes his hot creamy cum.
Tips & Warnings
For the ladies who donít like the taste of semen, when you feel your partnerís cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your hand wrapped firmly around his stick, pump faster. Let him tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his cum.
If he tries to thrust for a deep throat and causes you to gag because you are not ready, grab him gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin but tight enough to stop him...
Do not break the skin...
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 05:25 PM
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Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 05:40 PM
Why is it that I get the impression that you'd like to do most of the talking ...
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 05:53 PM
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 06:49 PM
if someone stops briefly, then a 2nd time ill say 'dont stop, keep on with your hand when you need to catch your breath'
if they stop for more than a couple of seconds, my climax meter just reset to zero
Posted Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:13 PM
I suck the knob whilst pumping his shaft with my hand
I deepthroat whilst pulling and massaging his balls
I swallow him with my hand around the base of his cock
When I get tired I just bite his nipples and pump his cock with my hands and then he gets off!!!