My G/F Wants Sex To Only Last A Minute!!
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 09:35 AM
So we both certainly enjoy the sex but why does she want it to be over sooo fast! I mean i just wanna be able to enjoy it for a little while lol. She not exactly one to work up to things with sex, she just likes it hard fast and bust a nut and that be it i guess.
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 09:38 AM
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 09:45 AM
Get her to a point of orgasm and then back off a bit, don't let her go!!
Drive her crazy for a while like this!
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 09:48 AM
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 10:37 AM
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 01:42 PM
2) yeah an hour and half is not needed, but id like more that five to ten.
3) i dunno i mean she always has orgasims during sex, seems like she enjoys it. she really into it, right up until that point when shes quickly had enough i guess.
Well the other thing, we dont have sex really often, atleast not according to me. But like this morning we had sex, she had two orgasims in prob less then ten min and then starts gettin mad bc i havent came yet and then proceeds to says "maybe we would have sex more if you wouldnt take so long"!! I really didnt know what to say to that.
Oh and im 23 shes 21 if this is of any importance
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 01:48 PM
ok heres the fuckign deal. the majority of men last 4 minutes during intercourse. she happens to be the one lucky- yet undeserving bitch to complain that her man lasts a long time. my girlfriend would kill for me to be able to last a long time every time we have sex. but the fact is, sometimes we have to have sex 3 times in one night cause the first two times i nut within 5 minutes and she doesnt get her chance. so to complain about a man that lasts long in bed is completely rediculous. go find a woman who will appreciate what you can do for her.
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 02:06 PM
smartguyswin: yeah she never has been a very appreciative g/f i try to do all i can for her, with sex and just everything. she never also has never been one to go out of her way to keep my satisified. shes is a good girl and i do really love her though.
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 02:16 PM
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 02:23 PM
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Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 04:58 PM
How wet is she? if she's dry it'll hurt...
Maybe she has a problem? Maybe there is something causing pain emotional (rape or abuse) or physical There are a few medical problems that could do that...
You will never know unless you talk to her. Talk to her patiently, gently and tell her how you feel. Use all the love you feel. Make the conversation about you, not her, then there is nothing to defend. Be patient and keep trying. There is something going on...
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 05:56 PM
Posted Thu Mar 19, 2009 05:00 AM
My bf lasts too long, but I'm patient and help as long as I can before I get too tired and just snuggle and kiss with him before he cums. And I'd expect him to do the same thing with me if I hadn't cum and he had.
Like I said the times are different. It'll take between 5-10 minutes sometimes up to 20 minutes. We try different positions, oral, hand jobs etc and he'll cum about 20 minutes after me, sometimes longer.
No real pointers on what to do here... just stating I have a similar issue, but deal with it differently than your gf.
Posted Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:31 AM
if she is getting mad at you for not getting off fast enough something is wrong. she apparently doesnt care about you not one bit. you need to move on and find someone who does care about you, in bed and out.