Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 12:37 PM
You see, my girlfriend lost her virginity to this guy that had a huge dick. He was around 10 inches long and 8 inches in circumsference. She tells me that it was way too painful for her, and that she never could come and barely enjoyed it, and that it was very frustrating. But also, they were together for around three months and she had sex with him around 8 to 10 times, at very least. I am, on the other hand, much smaller, with a length of 6 inches and a circumsference of 5.6. But she always comes when we have sex and has always told me that the only sex she has enjoyed is with me.
If what she says is true, then why she did it so many times with the other guy? specially if it was so painful for her. Has any other girl around here experienced something similar? Or is she just humoring me?
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 12:50 PM
ive been dating my girlfriend for 20 months (a couple days shy). ive purchased and used over 500 condoms in that time.
ok i can help you though..
my girlfriend was my best friends ex. very funny how things work out sometimes.. but whatever everything is cool, the 3 of us are all friends, no hard feelings. i was a virgin before her. i know for a fact that my buddy, who was her first, has a big cock- signifcantly bigger than me.
first of all she really isnt humoring you. you're abuot the same size as me, and believe it or not, what we have is what i like to call the 'perfect' cock. cause its the best size.. not too big that it hurts, not too small that they dont feel it. dont be so insecure! having a normal size dick means you will be able to pleasure 98% of women. it also means that you will get awesome blow jobs- cause if its real big, a woman can't do as much with it.
so my girlfriend cheated a few weeks ago with some guy who turned out to have a big cock. we broke up before she fucked him, i caught her trying. so she fucks him and it hurt her really bad. next day my phone is ringing.. the slut deserved what she got, im happy that their sex was so bad they gave up after 2 minutes. he had a big one and it hurt them both apparently, no matter which way they tried... (alhtough i know that its the handyman not the tool doing the job wrong...)
heres my advice.. be good in bed! learn how to use what you have, be good at oral, fingering, body massages, all those 'little' things.. if you show that you are really into her and appreciate her body and pleasuring her, you'll never have to worry about your size.
foreplay is the key. i promise. i know you've heard a woman say "he doesnt do all the little things" blah blah blah.. well the little things are showing an interest and some compassion and enthuasism.
i might not have the biggest dick but i sure can eat pussy like a pro.
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 01:07 PM
its really logical though. i might have seen 2 dicks besides my own in my life. you easily get caught up in the hype, and think every guy has a huge wang like in the porno's... but the vast majority of people are between 5 and 7 inches.
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 01:55 PM
....then you must be married.
LMAO! good call.
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 03:18 PM
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 07:23 PM
Ok, I'm a 7"1' inch guy, my last girlfriend ex was a 10 so I felt everytime we had sex I couldn't match up since he was 3 inches bigger. She said I was great in bed, you make me cum, sex with him hurt he was too big, all the same stuff you wrote. So I was thinking the same question you are, "then why have sex with them so many times" That didn't make sense to me and it still doesn't. Well we dated for 8 months, of that 8 months she cheated on me with him for 4 months behind my back. So you can kinda get what I think about that.
Plus, it really hurt me emotionally and the way I view things.