Girlfriend is too close with other guys
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 09:40 AM
When we started dating, she told me how he has always been in love with her, although she doesnt feel the same way for him, and he said he could put that aside so we could date.
We got in a small fight (extremely small) about something dumb and later that I'm sure she told him what had happened. The next day she tells me that this boy asked her to prom and she said no. ***This kid knows full well that we would be going together, WE'RE DATING!*** At this point I realized that he still has huge feelings for her because he saw an opportunity where she wasn't thinking of me and decided to take the chance and maybe she'd say yes.
I respect her for telling me, because some girls would just not say anything. I am planning on talking to her about this whole situation about how I feel uncomfortable with the way they interact with eachother because I know his past feelings. I don't want them to stop being friends, I just want her to tone down everything and stop kissing and holding hands, it gives the kid the wrong idea and it bothers me.
How can I explain to her my feelings about this situation?
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 09:53 AM
Sooner or later, with you or with somebody else, she'll understand that we cannot have all what we want. Life is about choices, and I would urge you to make yours.
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 11:15 AM
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 11:49 AM
All I got to say is "if your desperate" not saying you are. Just please dont stay with her out of that.
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 12:23 PM
Nice guys get fucked over.
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 04:39 PM
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 04:49 PM
Group sex at its best.
Just a thought
Just an option.
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 06:07 PM
its only a matter of time before the OP starts agreeing with us. UNLESS, he is stern. Don't have to be mean dude, but let her know you don't "play that shit"
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 06:53 PM
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 08:15 PM
i'll almost guarantee she leads him on real bad, and does all kinds of unacceptable things with him/toward him.
my advice: step back.....WAY back. let her come to you. she may not, but if not, oh well, she would have been big trouble down the road anyways.
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