Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 01:31 PM
so heres the deal, im a virgin, and im pretty sure that she is to. i want to eventually end up having sex with her, but not too soon, because i think that i might develop really strong feelings for her and i dont want to mess that up, but i do want our relationship to end up in sex, but im almost confident she wont feel the same way about it. what is a good way to bring up the subject, with out sounding like a asshole who just wants to fuck? should i wait longer to bring it up? and what if she doesnt want to have sex at all or until shes married?
id really appreciate some advice and different points of view of the situation, i could just be worrying about something stupid, but any input is appreciated.
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 01:39 PM
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 07:35 PM
By that I mean if you end up going below the belt. After that just bring it up in some conversation concerning anything sexual. If you say you can talk to her as easily as she says, then this shouldn't be a problem.
But...if she is against premarital sex, then that's entirely up to you. I have a buddy who has been going out with a girl for 3 or 4 years, all of high school, and when I asked him if they ever had sex. He said...well, she's against premarital sex. When I asked him if that made a difference, he said that he has something stronger with her and that it doesn't even matter. So if she tells you the same thing, from there on...all your choice
Posted Sun Mar 29, 2009 10:11 PM
Posted Tue Mar 31, 2009 08:30 AM
and besides, i got a feeling that this girl is going to be good, i love spending time hanging out with her and talking on the phone, she could end up being the best girl ive been with, its already looking like it. so yeah, i guess i just freaked a little while i was watching porn haha. thanks guys
Posted Tue Mar 31, 2009 09:12 AM