Bit of a conundrum
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 03:04 AM
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 04:15 AM
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 06:02 AM
You made the right decision and did not fall into the trap. Her question to herself should be not if she is virgin or not, but is she pregnant. It seems she has been drunk way more than just twice...and her virginity is not all that important to her. But she wants you to think it is.
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 10:03 AM
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 10:16 AM
Just for the record, being a nice guy is always a good thing and will not make you come last in the game. That's a myth... you have to see the game in terms of short and long term gains... if not being nice means to take advantage of a girl who's drunken and with some dubious problems of her own, then that's what the gain is. If, on the other hand, you take your time and in the process you find a girl that likes you for your own merits and qualities, then that would be your gain.
You tell me who's ahead at the end...
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 12:30 PM
Posted Fri Apr 10, 2009 01:09 PM
Having sex with someone who is drunk AND a emo mess about a past sexual relationship is asking to wake up with your balls snipped off.
You chose to think with the right head saving yourself an assload of future problems.
Posted Sun Apr 12, 2009 01:38 PM
And being the nice guy isn't a bad thing, you could try being a little more aggressive while still maintaining your morals/values though.