Posted Wed Apr 29, 2009 04:32 PM
Posted Wed Apr 29, 2009 05:07 PM
Anyways, that was awhile back. Since then our circumstances have changed and we are both back in school so I choose to not take the added risk of finishing inside her. She wants me to, and i would like to. But I will either pull out or use a condom and then come inside with a condom on.
I would suggest that you use a spermicidal gel or a condom just to play is safe, however I am kinda paranoid.
Posted Wed Apr 29, 2009 09:09 PM
Posted Wed Apr 29, 2009 09:25 PM
Hormonal contraception is 99.9% effective when used properly. The ring has the phenomenal advantage of "Set it and forget it." As long as she hasn't had it out for more than a few hours at a time, then she should be completely covered.
Remember, hormonal contraception works in three ways:
A. The hormone release tells the brain to not stimulate the ovaries to release an egg
B. The cervical mucous thickens, preventing sperm from efficient travel through the reproductive tract.
C. The lining of the uterus thins, making implantation of a fertilizied egg difficult, if not impossible.
Compare this to condoms which have an 80% effectiveness rate during typical use and work in one or two ways. (A barrier preventing the release of semen into the vagina, and sometimes in conjuction with a spermacide.)
Remeber, contraceptive effectiveness is typical use by a typical couple during the course of a year. In other words, 20%, or one out of five couples will experience a pregnancy using condoms during the course of a year. One out of 1,000 couples will experience a pregnancy during the course of a year who are using the pill or the ring.
Posted Wed Apr 29, 2009 10:19 PM
If you want to be sure I would suggest another form like condom on top of it but then there are many many women who are just on the pill who have never gotten pregnant.
Posted Thu May 21, 2009 02:40 PM
I let my b/f cum in me and so far so good (for about 4 months now). Just don't have sex when she takes it out, and don't have sex until like 3 days after she puts it in and you should be fine.
Posted Thu May 21, 2009 04:18 PM
Posted Thu May 21, 2009 07:23 PM
If she uses it correctly, I see no problem cumming inside her, but I'm also in a different situation in my life than you are in yours.
Posted Fri May 22, 2009 09:00 AM
Posted Fri May 22, 2009 04:10 PM
No birth control - except abstinence - is 100% safe, but most methods of birth control are very close to being 100% effective. Most are in the 90-99% range.
That being said, as long as she's using the birth control correctly, there should be no reason why it won't work as expected. Make sure she's not taking antibiotics as they can reduce the effectiveness of birth control. If she's ever taking antibiotics while she's using birth control, use another method of birth control just to be safe. It's a good idea to use some kind of spermicide like spaceforme said. That way you can be sure none of your little guys break through, even without a condom.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 01:18 PM