Posted Sun May 03, 2009 09:19 AM
Posted Sun May 03, 2009 10:31 AM
I don't have a super hard one every time - sometimes it's a bit soft, but still enough to make a good show of it.
I doubt she even notices.
Posted Sun May 03, 2009 10:40 AM
This sounds like a partial erectile dysfunction thing. Nothing to worry about - it happens to most guys from time to time.
It can be a number of reasons -
Psychological - have you got any hangups about the women you're having sex with? Are they people besides your wife (Guilt).
Age - erections can get less hard as you get older. This is quite normal, but something you can do something about - exercise, get fit, eat sensibly.
Medical - it can be an early diabetes sign, or even heart/circulatory conditions.
If it's worrying you, go see a doc to get tested. It sounds really like it's something though that will pass. We all get this from time to time, if it gets any worse though, do go see that doc.
Posted Sun May 03, 2009 11:27 AM
Posted Sun May 03, 2009 11:52 AM
just pointing something that gives me 3/4s when I'm overloaded of it
otherwise a good scotch use to keep me full power for ages, of course, few doses not a full bottle
Posted Mon May 04, 2009 09:55 AM
also, depression can cause that not-so-hard-ness.
so yeah, search your emotions and habits and see what you find.
Posted Tue May 05, 2009 12:22 PM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 07:56 PM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 08:14 PM
After I had sex with my current g/f a bunch of times and realized that I stayed hard when i go the condom or if she stopped jerking me off for a couple minutes i stayed hard. Thats when i started thinking...maybe it was the girls I was with. I'm not the type of person that can just have sex with anyone anywhere. Sometimes sure but for the most part I have to really like her and know she really likes me.
Maybe your the same way? Just try not to think about it so much and relax. Try not jerking off too much if you do it often. And if this mostly happens soon after you have already ejaculated then maybe the colonel need some rest.