Desperately want to squirt!
Posted Tue May 05, 2009 09:13 PM
I know where my G-spot is. I've tried using my fingers, a curved glass dildo (to hit my G-spot better), and a vibrator, and I've tried using my other hand to rub my clit at the same time because I usually need more than just vaginal stimulation to cum normally (without squirting). I always pee before trying to be sure it's not pee coming out because my bladder's empty, and I don't think it's a psychological thing (i.e. being worried I'll pee and clenching up) because I've even tried over the toilet to avoid getting the bed all wet. All that happened was I dropped my glass dildo in the toilet and chipped it. Now I'm not sure I should use it because I don't want to cut myself, so I don't have the advantage of the curve it has.
I'd like to learn how to do this on my own and surprise my boyfriend by showing him how to make me do it once I've figured it out. I think he'd be so turned on if I knew how to squirt, so I haven't tried with him yet. I'm not against figuring out how to make me do it together. I'm sure we'd have a lot of fun trying.
Any suggestions - especially from women who know how to squirt or men who know how to make their women squirt? What else can I try? Am I doing something wrong?
Posted Tue May 05, 2009 09:18 PM
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Posted Tue May 05, 2009 09:53 PM
Imago, is this the right one? Also, do you know if your wife is able to squirt by herself when she uses the Wand or is it only with you using it on her? Also, does the Wand vibrate?
Posted Fri May 08, 2009 06:26 PM
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Posted Fri May 08, 2009 10:34 PM
That's good to know. I honestly believe every woman has the ability to squirt. It may take patience, but patience I have. I'm sure that once I figure out how to do it the first time I'll be able to do it again. It seems like figuring it out for the first time is the hump (pun intended) that I have to overcome.
Posted Sat May 09, 2009 02:22 PM
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Posted Sun May 10, 2009 09:20 PM
LOL... Sounds like a great idea to me, Imago. Thanks again for the advice. I haven't achieved the G-spot only orgasm yet. It feels great, but I need the additional clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. I was really impressed by the Wand when it arrived because it's so heavy. I think the word "beautiful" really is the right word to describe it. I almost want to put it on my coffee table as a conversation starter. :-P
I'm going to keep trying on my own, and I'm going to continue to use the Wand, of course. I've only used it once since I received it, but the curve is at the perfect angle. Hitting my G-spot is essentially effortless when I use it. Even my curved glass dildo wasn't as easy to use, and I thought before that it was the t0y I should be using to get myself to squirt. There's no comparison between my glass t0y and the njoy Wand. It's just incredible.
If I can't squirt on my own, I may need my boyfriend's help. I'm determined to figure it out. I know every woman is physically capable. It's just a matter of time, patience, finding the right position, and allowing it to happen instead of forcing it to happen.
Since your wife seems more conservative than I am from what you've posted about her not tending to masturbate, I'm hopeful it'll happen for me eventually. Thank you again for the encouragement.
Posted Wed May 13, 2009 07:28 PM
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Posted Thu May 14, 2009 05:04 PM
No luck yet, Imago. I'm certainly going to keep trying. That njoy Wand is amazing. It's so easy to hit the right spot with it. I think it's the weight; it's heavy. Also, I haven't tried the bigger end yet. I think upstateny1 might be right to say I may need some help from my SO. I don't know why I'm having so much trouble squirting, but I'm determined to make it happen. I don't care how long it takes.
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 03:50 PM
This is what I've heard from women who can squirt. They say the orgasm is much more intense than a clitoral orgasm. Definitely something I'd love to experience for myself.
Posted Fri May 22, 2009 10:31 PM
Posted Fri May 22, 2009 11:50 PM