Has anyone here tried swinging or cuckolding?
Posted Sun May 24, 2009 07:02 PM
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 08:10 AM
We have a recent male friend we met online become a regular visitor.
We have also recently visited a swinging bar.
You can check my topics for the stories, they are in the stories section.
I preferred the laid back style of the club. There was a strict no pressure rule and everyone was so welcoming.
Some are there to watch, some play but you can relax and see where the night goes.
I must say it takes slot of careful communication and a relationship based on open trust, honesty and respect to be ready for sharing with others...
It took us 8 1/2 years to get this far.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 09:18 AM
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 12:05 PM
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 12:07 PM
Posted Tue May 26, 2009 01:34 PM
I told her that I thought she was gorgeous and I would love to have sex with her, but what about her husband? I did have some concern. When she told me that it's OK with him, I could hardly believe my ears. Why would a guy let his knockout wife screw other guys? Well, that's what they were into. He was almost 30 yrs older than her and he couldn't satisfy her sexual needs. They were into swinging and cuckolding. I didn't even know what the word meant. She could have sex with other men, then she would come home and he would please her by eating her just fukked pussy. She also told me that they were open to threesomes too and asked me if I was open to the idea of joining the two of them on my next trip. I wasn't about to close that door, so I said "Sure, I'd be open to it".
We did get together on my next trip and it was everything that I would have imagined in my mind. That was my only threesome experience.
I haven't got time to tell the story now, but it's a good one.
It seemed to work for them.
Posted Wed May 27, 2009 07:43 AM
But I would love to role play this idea with somebody NSA. I admit that I'd be too jealous to do this with a significant other. For me I'd like to do it in a "same room" situation. Where essentially one man takes a dominant role with the woman while the other takes a more submissive role. I'd love to play this way. I don't really get off to the psychological aspects of it besides the domination/submission aspects.
Posted Wed May 27, 2009 08:24 AM
We Joined an aussie online dating site.
We joined for a peek around when we first chatted about trying threesomes.
We wern't overly fussy and actually turned down the more attractive couples as we felt insecure in our own bodies.
It wasnt a great experience and was quite disapointing.
Years later we rejoined the site and were alot pickier..... some people are after quick meets but i kinda wanted to get to know them first. the first time we invited someone over was so damn nerve wracking. It was good he took initiatives as we were hopeless! From the time we told him yes we paced the room until he got there!!!
You may prefer to just go out to a normal pub and find a willing participant that you click with?