Ladies' experience sought - anal sex
Posted Tue Jun 14, 2005 05:14 PM
My girlfriend and I have recently (last 2 weeks) started experimenting with anal sex. We did all the 'right stuff' as passed on by more experienced couples and individuals (particularly on this forum) but we are finding that our success is proving a bit limited. We have tried it about 5 times and we have gone past the stage of the initial pain turning into pain mixed with pleasure, but we are a bit stuck in terms of my girlfriend actually sticking with it for longer than about 2 minutes - and even then I have not actually slid in and out of her. You see, she can bare the discomfort if i hold still but for only a limited period of time as mentioned. She then asks me to take my dick out of her as it is just too much. She says its not so much painful but just so uncomfortable she has to stop.
We do work up to it very slowly, she does relax (wine helps!!) and she is keen to persist. May I ask the ladies if this is sounding familiar? If so, what in your experience happened next or what did you do next? Maybe you could describe to me how it felt for you? How did you get around the discomfort - apart from 'relaxing more'? My girlfriend says my dick goes in easier if she pretends as though is having a bowel movement - i.e. just going through the same muscle motions. Maybe there are lady members out there who might be willing to pass on some experiences to myself and my girlfriend?
I thank you for your time.
Posted Tue Jun 14, 2005 08:58 PM
Just remember to never pull out too fast...
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2005 01:28 AM
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2005 02:25 AM
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2005 06:30 AM
just be sure to go very slow