Few questions - for her pleasure
Posted Mon Jun 22, 2009 03:38 PM
Anyway, I'm in my early 20s and my goal is to become better at sex. I am really good at going down on a girl and can make her have full body orgasms from it, but I want to step it up during sex. Also, I want to make sure that every girl I hook up with is having a great time. I want to her to brag about me to her friends the next day. Might be an ambitious goal, but I do think there is always room for improvement.
So yeah, I am very good at going down on a girl, but the problem is that for one night stands, there is no chance of that happening, unless i'm really fucked up.
So I wanted to know from the guys what sex moves/techniques they use when they have sex that drives the girl absolutely wild.
From the girls I wanted to know what is it that they absolutely love. And also, is there a certain condom you prefer (do ribbed condoms make a difference)? Do you like it when lube is used?
I'm up for anything, don't know if it will be done during a one night stand, unless I know the girl is clean and takes care of herself.
Thanks for the help. I guess it doesn't have to be just about sex, anything that will drive her crazy will be of great help! Be specific!
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 12:13 PM
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 07:19 PM
Also, getting back to my previous question on what moves/techniques/positions females love... any input?
I found that some girls enjoy it when they are lying on a table and i'm standing fucking them and wet my thumb to play with her clit. Or in doggystyle position and playing with her clit and/or asshole with a wet thumb/fingers. Pretty basic I know, but I need some more ideas!
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 08:37 PM
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 08:46 PM
I'm not sure if these results that i produced will happen with everyone but most find the vibrator rings to help out, so I think there is nothing to lose.
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 08:54 PM
Guys, does the ring make you more sensitive or make you numb?
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 05:00 PM
If, and only if you know her well, give her oral before penetration, otherwise finger her... if she tells you to go in, make her wait until she begs for it and still make her wait a little more; then when you penetrate, do it as slowly as you possibly can... make her weep with desire. After that, you may want to keep going slowly and change tempo every now and then. Make sure to check her reaction at every step of the way, and if you feel her cumming just keep doing whatever you're doing. After she cums, give her a few minutes to collect herself, then you can start again.
Posted Thu Jun 25, 2009 06:59 PM
Also, definitely use lube if she's not wet enough to make sex more comfortable for her. The wetter I get, the better sex feels for me.
Posted Thu Jun 25, 2009 07:09 PM
I tried them years ago and the only reason they seemed better was that the wife was happy that I was thinking of her pleasure. Otherwise they weren't any different and I never tried them again.
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2009 12:54 PM
Getting back to the moves/techniques? What drives females crazy when having sex? Change of pace is a good tip, thanks oliveskin.
Btw, do any of you guys thurst in a circular motion (more hips). Women do you like that?
Posted Thu Jul 02, 2009 05:11 PM
Circular hip motions, circular tongue motions, circular rubbing motions with your finger on her clit... you get the idea.
Posted Thu Jul 02, 2009 05:17 PM
My wife will attest to that one (smirks)