Getting Wife into Anal
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 08:06 AM
How did it work out for you?
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 10:06 AM
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 10:25 AM
After an open and honest conversation about giving it a try, she was willing. Well some time, a few months actually, goes by and one Saturday afternoon she was walking out of the bathroom and said let's try the ass but your not cumming in it. I know dumbest thing ever but I eagerly agreed.
Now my wife and I had this unspoken deal that regardless of the rule I had to respect it. She never did anything ridiculous and I always (still do) played by the rules. So I went into the anal first not going to cum out of respect for her.
So we start slow in missionary, lots of lube, I'm paying close attention to her and following her lead. Well she asks me to bite her neck and I do. Before we know it we're fucking. It was when I realized this that I was ready to cum but held back and kept going.
Then out of the blue she tells me to cum in her ass. Well she barely finished the S in ass and I was cumming. She feels it and we both feel her ass completely relax open as if to say, "READY TO RECEIVE". It was one of the greatest moments in our insane sex life.
For the next two weeks, about 10 sessions, we did nothing but the ass and she'd tell me to cum, I would and her ass would open up every time.
It's now 4 years later and while her ass no longer gets fucked quite as often as it used to, still 3-4 times a month, it is a wonderful tool in our arsenal.
There have been quite a few times where she swears her ass came while fucking it. She swears that it was not a clitoral or g-spot orgasm as it was clearly different. There have also been numerous times where we'd get to fucking with no lube. And as it gets more intense we can both feel it get wet and wetter. Then upon closer inspection it's a thin, completely clear liquid like you'd expect from the pussy. As I type this I cannot help but smile and shake my head in disbelief.
We have a glass butt plug that gets used frequently, anal beads, lots of anal rubbing by both her and I, occasionally she'll reach back and finger her ass while I'm fucking her, sometime she'll do an enema before hand to insure no mess, we've done it every position/angle imaginable. My point is I played by the rules and was respectful about it and it has become an important part of our sex life.
BTW my wife finds great humor in threatening to put the plug in my ass instead of hers. One time she chased me down with fucking thing.
She's completely comfortable with wanting and loving it. She won't hesitate to brag about it to female friends/coworkers if she gets the chance.
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 07:09 PM
however, we enjoy playing around with fingers down there and the like. we've been mutual about it, only doing something to each other if we're willing to have it done to ourselves... that was how I got her into it. I let her know I was curious about that area but I wanted to respect her boundaries, and it was just a spontaneous thing that happened one night. we both liked it a lot.
it's been quite fun...
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 10:47 PM
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Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 04:09 AM
DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob-fantastic orgasms. She also fucks me with a strap on. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on. She rubs lube on it and talks dirty about her dick.
Any guys who don't do this type of thing don't know what you are missing.
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 04:57 AM
But after a while, he got me into it by first licking my ass hole when giving me oral, then inserting a finger etc etc. Patience and perserverance are needed here as she may not like it at first.
I didn't like it at first................now im an anal slut.