Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 09:31 PM
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 10:26 PM
Have a few sexual relationships with girls around your age then you can try the older ones if you still feel the fantasy.
I'm a college student too, so i know where you're coming from. Get involved at the school like the parties or gathering, so you can get out there. If you want a one night stand, go to the parties and keep and eye on the single drunk ones. Not saying take advantage of them, but take care of them. They're going to be drunk and they probably won't drive, unless they want to die. So you stay sober or just a light drink and start talking to them.
Eventually they'll need to get going and if you did your part, ask them if they need a ride or something. I'm not going to give you the play by play, but just do what comes natural and use your imagination.
Have fun and don't worry so much. Maybe going to a steady relationship is what you need instead of a quickie. So keep your eyes open man and the girl and opportunity will show itself
Posted Tue Jun 23, 2009 11:05 PM
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 04:46 AM
What you might find out with anyone older is that there is a huge generation gap in choices for entertainment, music, sports and other stuff that you later find out about. A really older women may be worse. She may be lost in the 70's. She may have no idea on how to run a computer or retrieve calls on a cell phone or know what an IPOD, Blackberry, or Blue tooth, Magic Jack or Skype are or have a need for texting....but does have a working record player for playing scratchy big band music, a good working console B&W tv with a converter box for digital, a neat old 8 track player, an Am Clock radio, and a jiggly pressure cooker for her vegetables. She may be driving an older AMC Hornet with no options, paying her bills in person, like to go to Plays, Musicals, Bingo, Knitting Club, and other boring stuff you aren't in to. Her entire day may be consumed by visiting friends in a rest home and Doctor visits. She may go to bed at 8:00 totally exhausted. She probably isn't interested in Cruise Nights, Bike or Drag Races, Snowboarding, Mountain climbing, Surfing, Skate Parks or Jogging, but is interested in watching reruns of Lawrence Welk. This may be overwhelming for you...you got a gorgeous 4-speed, big block Corvette Convertible with sidepipes ready to rumble and it's hard for her to get in easily with her bad knees, rubber stockings , but finally straps herself in. But, please keep the top and windows up...she's got Chronic Sinus too. You know.....drafts.....they muss up her wig too.
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 07:38 AM
Tangent: we really need to change the stupid parameters on what constitutes being a virgin.
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 12:37 PM
What you might find out with anyone older is that there is a huge generation gap in choices for entertainment, music, sports and other stuff that you later find out about. A really older women may be worse. She may be lost in the 70's.
Oh dear Gregorio... I think you just put me in the wrong slot
I actually prefer public transit for ecological reasons, but I have a manual Jetta in case I need to go farther (don't like automatic transmission in fact, and too cold for convertibles in Canada I'm afraid), I listen to jazz and electronica, I have never played bingo in my life, these days I meet friends at a sports bar and we watch soccer over a few beers, I run 20 to 30 min every other day, in winter I shovel a lot of snow myself (sometimes 2 feet every week), I love action movies, watch mostly sci-fi on TV, play video games (you know kids), I'm very good with technology (science background actually), and you can see the kind of nylons and clothes (or lack of) I wear in my thread . It's odd that you mention surfing too because this year I'm going to a beach party with a group of women my age at a surf club in the Pacific. Sorry, but older women today aren't what they used to be 30 years ago.
PS: I never go after young men, so I don't consider myself a cougar... I actually don't run after men at all... I guess you can say that I'm old fashioned that way...
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 12:44 PM
Posted Wed Jun 24, 2009 03:26 PM