Thoughts of Breaking up with Perfect GF?
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2009 10:49 PM
Long time reader, seldom poster. I'm a 24 year old with a great situation going for me. Job and GF etc. In fact, the GF is damn near perfect. She gets me, she is great in the sack, shes my type; all that.
My problem is that I am just too damn curious about other girls. I would never cheat on her, but I always wonder what if I broke up with her. Part of me wants to just be single. Meet new people; chase some new girls; make new connections; you know, get more variety. The other part realizes this perfect girl in front of me...I don't want to take it for granted. Part of it is a sexual thing, part of it is just find a different person with different views and opinions and hobbies. Another part is more free time for sports, video games, and friends.
I know the grass is always greener on the other side but...I am beginning to think that monogamy is just not for humans
I am sure I am not the only person to go through this, any thoughts?
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2009 11:13 PM
He broke up with her, she moved out, and he went out "fishing". After weeks or months of "fishing" and not one bite he started to miss his ex. He begged her to come back but she was done. She never did take him back. After a long while he did find someone else but was very unhappy for a long time.
Maybe she isn't so perfect for you. Think it over long and hard before you do anything you might regret.
Before my wife and I got together years ago I wanted to play around. I just got out of a relationship and didn't want to jump into another one right away, but she was someone I couldn't let go.
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2009 11:18 PM
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2009 11:26 PM
I havent really considered breaking up with her...but I just thought I would get my thoughts out there and hear others.
Thanks for the responses!
Posted Sat Jun 27, 2009 12:41 AM
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Posted Sat Jun 27, 2009 07:54 AM
I think I could handle swinging; the gf is open to alot but I doubt she could handle it. Though, even a year ago, she wasnt as open to some sexual ideas that she is open to now.