just found out my wife...
Posted Sat Oct 09, 2004 08:06 PM
I masterbate and haven't told her. I have done it sometimes because she's turned me down or also sometimes to up my stamina. I feel like a hipocrite.
I "luvmywife" dearly.
Posted Sat Oct 09, 2004 08:23 PM
Posted Sat Oct 09, 2004 08:30 PM
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Posted Sun Oct 10, 2004 12:13 AM
Posted Sun Oct 10, 2004 01:00 AM
there are none.
she does exactly what everyone does, you, me, her, the pope. it is a fact of life. she is not cheating on you. she is pleasing her self. enjoy it. it means she is active and sexual. i would worry more if she stopped.
are you cheating on her when you masterbate? how does that make her feel? there are always two feet choose from. love her or not, she is the same as you and i.
ladies of SF please take over and express your opinions, i think that would be better than me hashing the same points.
Posted Sun Oct 10, 2004 09:17 AM
Look at it this way, at least she is pleasing herself and hasn't gone out looking for someone else to please her.
Posted Sun Oct 10, 2004 08:33 PM
Not realy, I asked and she said for quite a while. That made me feel a bit better. My problem is I find my self continually assuming that any time we are not together she is doing it and that I have somehow let her down. As I said I know it is MY PROBLEM. So monday I am going to see a sex counsler.
I would like to here from more happily married ladies that may have been through the same thing. This could give me some isight as to my wifes perspective.