Blowing A Mime - ATTN: Men
Posted Sun Jul 05, 2009 05:19 PM
when you are getting sucked off
MAKE SOME NOISE!
If I wanted a silent blowjob I'd suck off a mime.
When I'm down there I can't see you rolling your eyes or licking your lips, so I need some sort of vocalization to know when I'm doing something you like/to keep doing it, or if you need me to switch it up.
I know I'm good at what I do, but every guy is different.
Guys: Do you stay quiet during oral? Do/How Do You let your partner know what you like/don't like or do you just let them do their thing?
Girls: How do you feel about silent/quiet guys, do you work better with feedback?
Does a quiet bj necessarily mean a bad one?
Someone told me they stay quiet cuz they are concentrating on things other than the bJ so they don't cum too quickly. Is this valid?
Posted Sun Jul 05, 2009 05:36 PM
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Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 12:58 AM
That's my biggest issue. I don't want to stop something they may be enjoying, or even something bringing them very close to climax, to ask if it's okay.
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 01:21 AM
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Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:22 AM
Very useful technique
I really prefer vocalization but little things while you're fooling around are always useful to help you see if you're doing a good job, even if it isn't noise.
Hand on the back of your head/tangled in your hair
Grabbing her breasts
Rubbing her back/back of neck
I know when I'm being eaten I usually have my hands on the back of their head, and I'll massage/play with their ears and grip their hair a little bit. I also thrust my hips- but I certainly moan, even if it's just a little bit depending on the situation.
I like being fingered while I blow a guy. When I hook up in a car I usually end up on all fours and they can reach their hand down under me, or around me, and finger me while I blow them. I usually get REALLY into a BJ when that's happening, or if I flip around and go for some 69. I love giving but when I'm receiving at the same time I am often more into it.
I was having trouble with the "silent guy" till he started going that, and pulling the hip thrusting, it made me feel better because I was kind of worried he wasn't enjoying it, till after when I thought about all the signs. The only thing about that is I become distracted, I just focus better when I know he's enjoying it then when I have to guess.
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:42 AM
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Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 07:16 PM
the last guy i was with would keep his mouth and eyes closed the entire time. it was very unattractive.
my current guy is pretty vocal when we are having sex. when i am giving him head, he normally just breathes harder and makes a few other noises.
touching my hair, back, etc and the way he sounds definitely lets me know he is enjoying it.
Posted Tue Jul 07, 2009 02:48 PM
Posted Tue Jul 07, 2009 05:13 PM
Lol... that would be something...
Actually, I don't mind the silent types as long as I can see their faces, but then what I really like, more than moaning sounds, is when they talk to me...
Posted Tue Jul 07, 2009 05:15 PM
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