Like I said It was the withholding information that hurt me the most in this situation and this girl did not come round after all as he told her it was best that they shouldn't be friends no more after I explained how I felt about it.
Olive skin I know what you mean, I got rushed in at 16 weeks and at 25 weeks with heavy bleeding (everything is fine though) and mr sugar_lump even though we are giving him a hard time :-) to his credit never ever left my side.
It's easy for all these people to say 'turn your back and walk away' and it's probably what I would say if someone asked me for the same advice. I'm attempting to make preparations for an exit and i've got to talk to my family and explain the situation cos I can hardly walk at the minute let alone carry a load of bags and walk out lol.
You're in a very difficult situation, and it's going to be hard, test me, I know, but you'll be better off in the long rum ... HUGS