Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 12:53 AM
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 01:38 AM
decide what you want out of the relationship and either tell her how the situation is making you feel or spend more time apart.. one month is not a long time
if breaking up is the answer then cut it all off because doing stuff together so soon is just reliving old feelings
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 01:51 AM
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 03:35 AM
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 04:13 AM
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 04:51 AM
You haven't told us why you broke up and whether that reason still applies, so... it's up to you to fill in the blanks.
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 03:38 PM
it sounds like you know what you want but she doesn't know what she wants and unfortunately there is nothing you can do about that. focus on the situation exactly as it is and accept the decisions she's made because your effort to change them wouldn't be her!
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 04:27 PM
trust me, just start seeing other girls and make her aware of that. ignore her advances, play it cool, and if she really wants you back she'll make a move.
don't get played like i did.
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 04:29 PM
B A said:
Exactly. dude, take my advice, start seeing other girls and hang out with your friends. she's definitely interested in what else is out there.
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 04:53 PM
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 05:03 PM
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 05:30 PM
B A said:
Exactly. It's like the ex that says she "still wants to be friends because you're a big part of my life." -- true statement!