Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 08:49 PM
1-does masterbation during depression makes a person less sexually active ? meaning can depression make a person masterbate rather than having intercourse ?
2-ive been meeting up with some girls lately but the fact of being depressed is always pulling me back, will it help me if i get physical ? or depression should be delt before dealing with any sort of sexual activities ?
3-if the previous question was answered by yes would it be adequate to open the subject of depression (not in particular but at least hint it in a less opening up way) to that particular girl ? would she be able to help me ? (girls i knew for more then 2 years)
4-this should of been the 1st question rather then the last one but i might (and i insist on the might part) be depressed because of the lack of sexual activity or female presance in my life and that last one might be because i had alot of girl friends in the past that i missed the action with them , could sex take down my depression ?
i know this is more of a medical question rather then sexual but i always get amazing responses from the SF group so might as well throw this in.
reading back my post i think all the questions are relative to each other or maybe not , FACK!!! are they ?!!?!?! .... dont blame the depressed guy just answer the fucking questions , thanks
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 10:06 PM
Posted Wed Jul 22, 2009 09:14 PM
As for the apathy, I think it's a side effect. When my hard work goes unappreciated, either in my relationship or at the workplace, I get apathetic and start to not care about anything and it in turn makes me feel down.
usually I self-medicate with music, cleaning (although this activity can be counter productive), or I simply find somewhere peaceful to drive to like a lake or something and just listen to the sounds outside and watch birds fly around, dragonflies annoy me, haha...I don't know...I like to think that there are plenty of natural remedies to all of our worries.
I think in your case you should remove yourself from "The Game" for a while - just take a break from women for a bit and instead of being in pursuit, just observe. Be that nice guy that says hi to a beautiful woman, strikes up a conversation, and then walks away without so much as giving her your name. Although she might be what you think is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen in your life, trust me that there will be another take some time to just be yourself and to get to know yourself inside and out.
Posted Thu Jul 23, 2009 02:44 AM
and i don't think masturbation ever hurts your sex drive.
Posted Thu Jul 23, 2009 03:00 AM
Posted Thu Jul 23, 2009 03:09 AM