does sexual past matter?
Posted Sat Jul 25, 2009 08:33 AM
its ur opinion, im just wondering bc:
my gf and i were talking last night and when we first got together she had told me that her sisters ex accused her of having sex with an older man (she was underage at the time) well she swore sshe didnt do anything only kissed.
well come to find out last night she did have sex with the man. it kind of bothered me bc she lied to me about it.. she said they were all drunk and that when her sis and gf went to sleep she went back to him and it happened but she said after a few seconds she got up and left. i feel bothered for some reason, idk why
i know shes mine now and imhers and i can see myself with her for a long time. but maybe im just overthinking this a little bit too much
be honest with me ina nice way lol thanks in advanced.
Posted Sat Jul 25, 2009 11:14 AM
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Posted Sat Jul 25, 2009 11:31 AM
It's true..... trust is very important.....maybe the most important aspect of any relationship.
Unwritten rule.... if you don't have trust, you got zip.
And drinking till drunk....bad. What a way to live...out of control.
I hate anyone that lies...when does it stop? One excuse after another.
Posted Sat Jul 25, 2009 11:37 AM
shes a good person whether she doesnt think so. she has low self esteem bc of what she went through in the past,im not sure if that subject can be spoken of on here but i wont put her business out there like that..ill just say noone deserves it and i know how it feels i went through and it sucks so maybe thats something to do with it.
Posted Sat Jul 25, 2009 11:56 AM
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Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 02:51 AM
and we just found out today that shes pregnant so were excited aboutthat!
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 02:37 AM
and the fact her ex bf and his friend taged teamed her
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 04:19 AM
It's almost with the concept of a threesome. I think they're hot, and I think it'd be hot to have one. However, how do you determine the ratio? MMF or MFF? My girl recently came up to me and told me that she's Bi-curious, which is fantastic that she told me, yet at the same time plants a seed of "oh shit". I trust her and I know she wouldn't do anything to hurt me but my past with women hasn't been that successful (five have cheated on me during the relationship). The other "issue" I'm concerned of there is that she might like it and prefer same-sex relationships. I know it wouldn't happen but "what's ifs" can lead your train of thought anywhere.
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 07:12 AM
There is no substitue for Experience.
Why shouldn't a woman have the same past experiences as a man would? Most do, but don't let on because their men couldn't handle it.
The sluttier the better.
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 07:36 AM
I'll admit, I wouldn't like that my girlfriend lied about that if I was in your shoes. But you have to remember that she was young (and in her head) stupid when that happened. If you get a lot of shit over something, some people try to block it out and forget about it. It makes things easier and sometimes requires you to lie. It was way back when. I'd forget about it. It's nothing to ruin a relationship over.
And congrats, daddy!
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 03:16 PM
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Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 03:23 PM
we enjoy the stories, have fun about it and keep going...
a small defensive lie is not a problem...but if the lies are frequent then it's of some concern...
the past is always buried
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 04:40 PM