I came to this forum to seek some insight from others. I have had the same situation happen to me twice already. Me and my GF have been together for about 4years and we have never had sex. Yes i know! She wants to wait. We do mess around about twice a week. About 3 weeks ago, i was going down on her and she came. I was hard during that whole time I was down on her. Then we took about a min break for her to relax and when she started to go down on me my dick started to get soft. She got a little weird and she got mad because she thought that she cant turn me on. The thing is that she can! I just dont know what happen.
Yesterday, same exact thing happen. I dont know what it is? I started feeling like it was going down, then i began to think of the last time and my heart started to beat faster then all of the sudden it's down. Same result, she gets mad.
What can I do?
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need some insight...
Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 09:39 PM
First of all calm down. This same thing used to happen to my husband when we first met. Sometimes you like a person so much and you want to please them to the point where things do the opposite that you want them too. Maybe you have pent upfeelings subconsciously (like the fact that you are ready and she is not). Talk to her about it and let her know that she is not the problem but you just get so overly excited and you want to move to the next levels.Blame it on your nerves. I hope this made sense.
Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 09:47 PM
Putting artificial restrictions on having "sex" for four years is going to mess with anybody's head, and other parts of their body too.