hey - off to college
Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:46 PM
for bj's and makin out and crap. just any pointers?
edit - that smilie had nothin to do with this i just think its awesome
Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 11:11 PM
Posted Sun Jul 26, 2009 11:50 PM
what he said.
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 08:13 AM
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 08:17 PM
Just go up and talk to girls, you can't expect them to just flock to your dick like bees to honey. And if they just come up to you and start making out or touching you - then just think about what kind of girl that makes them.
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 08:23 PM
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2009 10:15 PM
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 09:15 AM
Oral sex can still transfer std's so keep that in mind.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 09:21 AM
thats the thing- its easy to get some in college at parties cause if you go to a party, you and everyone else is drunk. college parties have very little limits, 'safety sobers' are deemed unnecessary cause everyone lives within walking distance of the party.
but my personal view is you are exploiting drunk women who are only horny cause they are drunk. and those women should have a little pride in themselves. why be the girl that 'everyone' has fucked or gotten blown from? and then to laugh about it...
but i'm not on par with a typical college student. i think monogamy and loyalty are impressive, not being able to fuck 14 chicks in 1 weekend.
have fun with all the sloppy seconds, thirds, fifths, who knows how many dicks have been in that mouth in the past 3 hours. or what kind of infections.
(STi's are higher on college campuses than virtually anywhere else)
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:15 AM
I have never been a party person or a person to go to bars to pick up women. I am too afraid of catching a disease or something. I enjoy long term relationships with clean disease free ladies. the majority of the girls you will find at college parties or bars are in no way keepers (at least at that time in their life) you are not going to be the first lucky guy to get a blow job or easy lay from said woman.
Personally, I would say stay away from the parties and focus on school. But that's just me, I have seen too many of my friends go to school hit the party scene and fail out. Myself, well I drink alone or with small groups of friends and maintain a well above average GPA (and std free body)
Whatever you do, be safe and have some fun.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:17 AM
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 02:07 PM
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 02:16 PM
If you're gunna mess with random girls at LEAST do THEM a favor and yourself, and get tested regularly. But know it takes time for an STD to show up in blood work so in theory to know if you were clean you would have to abstain from sexual activity for awhile until you get your test results.
Also, if you're just gunna keep messing till you 'catch' something, it takes a few months for symptoms to show up (if at all) so you may not know and have spread something to someone if you wait.
Really, I would just stick to picking up girls at coffee shops and supermarkets, maybe on the quad at school or something, take them on a date or two, get to know them, and then if it feels right- go for it. You could even land yourself a long term hook up partner that you know is clean and not have to worry about catching everything from the skanks who blow 10 dudes at a party.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 02:29 PM
you know like;
-bow hunting skills
-keg stand skills
-beer pong skills
-or just your sincere, nice guy skills (usually the way to go)
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 02:29 PM
problem is tthat Ive never really tried picking up girls in random ass places like that before so i am sorta clueless. I have a bunch of girls that liked me in the past but to the girls I have liked they always see me as "hilarious and friendly but just a really good friend" - i seem uncapable of having someone be wayy attracted to me from the offset you know?
so im almost just kinda scared ill do all that work and then ill just be "the friend zone guy" yet again.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 02:33 PM
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 09:18 PM
I've got two questions for you OP, have you ever done anything with a women before, and how low are your standards?
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 09:46 PM
Posted Wed Jul 29, 2009 12:48 AM
This post has been edited by Jewelz: Wed Jun 23, 2010 04:06 PM