Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 04:02 PM
I'm married and we're both in our mid 20's…fit & attractive...have a few kids..both kids not over 4. I want sex all the time and can't quit thinking about it, and she always tries to get out of having sex with me. I feel like I have to beg her to do it. I love watching porn and am into the kinky stuff…her not so much. she hates it and thinks is degusting. She doesn’t know I love to watch it…but I have hinted around to her that we should get some videos and watch them together. She is more less really old fashion…stuck in the 50’s even though she is in her 20’s. We maybe have sex once or twice a week…and when I try to do it more…she says she doesn’t want to…and when I complain about it, she says we have sex more than most married couples. Is that true? I love her to death…and her looks are amazing. I don’t know what to do…I could have sex once or twice a day. A’m I the one that is not right? By her not wanting to have sex with me…I catch myself looking at other women…and saying…only if I were single. Our neighbor came over two nights ago and I couldn’t quit thinking…I bet she is a freak in bed. I WANT A FREAK IN BED! I look forward to being home alone to watch porn on my computer and masterbate.
I don’t know really what I am asking…it just feels good to talk to someone else about it. sorry so long.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 04:54 PM
Get some books, find out how to arrive at a happy medium, masturbation can do wonders for those of us who don't get enough but at the same I think it is a really good idea to open up and talk about how you are feeling!
Yes that will be hard but it will go a long way into building a much more solid relationship.
Posted Tue Jul 28, 2009 05:17 PM
Besides communication, realize that women are slow to respond to sex. Men think they can be ready at a drop of a hat just because they are. Try starting romance 24 hours before by helping out around the house,( yup...tie on an apron), do a few dishes, mop a few floors, do a few things most guys don't, and make her feel that there is no one better than you...which means you need to romance her by taking her for walks, to the seashore, to the Park, out to a nice meal or a movie. If you can get someone to care for the kids a couple days, it may score some points. Make her feel she is on vacation or living in a fantasy world. Any mistakes you make during this time will count against you...so go easy. Until she comes around, use masturbation to fill in those gaps...you certainly do not want to mess around. That can get you in big trouble and cost $$$$. Try developing some fun hobbies to fill your idle time.
Posted Wed Jul 29, 2009 07:34 AM
But I will try again! I defiantly don't want to lose her...I love her to death...and when we do make it in the bedroom by ourselves it is really good. Its the same routine each time...but I enjoy it. I don't know if I enjoy it because I don't feel we do it as much as we should...so I just take what I can get. Thanks again...and it feels so great to talk about this with someone other than her.
Posted Wed Jul 29, 2009 07:48 AM
Posted Wed Jul 29, 2009 04:09 PM
You think? I sure hope it doesn't get worse:scratch:
Posted Wed Jul 29, 2009 04:47 PM
I'm going to go out on a limb and say she's never had an orgasm. No, right, I know what you're going to say. "She has them sometimes.......". I'm willing to bet she's faking. BECAUSE if she's really having them she'll be wanting it as much as you do. I got my wife a vibe that we use before and during and I get it all that I want.