Boyfriend- please help!
Posted Fri Aug 07, 2009 09:00 PM
He's kind of homophobic, yet his dream is to have anal done on him.
And recently I found he was watching transexual porn. He said he wasn't the one watching it, but it was on his personal laptop.
Should I be worried..?
Posted Fri Aug 07, 2009 09:06 PM
My ex enjoyed lesbian p orn more than straight, but would never eeeever touch another woman. Not quite the same, but pretty similar I'd say. So long as you guys have a healthy sex life and you've got trust for one another, I'd really not bother over thinking it.
Posted Fri Aug 07, 2009 09:08 PM
Posted Sat Aug 08, 2009 03:30 AM
Just finding porn on his computer that's not "normal" is no big deal. I've had different stuff myself, just to be curious, something different, but given he likes wearing women's underwear, hummm....
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 05:30 PM
Posted Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:38 PM
B A said:
x2. if he's loyal with you, and your relationship is otherwise healthy, dont snoop.
Posted Mon Oct 05, 2009 01:26 AM
This may not healthy for you with what he enjoys.
Posted Mon Oct 05, 2009 04:50 AM
NB OH-Seven! said:
He should learn to hide his porn better
Hes probibly imbarased by it I know I would be
Try getting some 'regular' porn n watching it with him - could do wonders for your sex life
Posted Mon Oct 05, 2009 05:29 AM
Try being more open minded and accepting.
Everyone is different in thier preferences to porn and in thier fetishes.
Talk to him and be careful of your tone. let him explain to you what the turn on is and how it makes him feel.