Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 09:37 AM
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Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:40 AM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:51 AM
Then, over time, it all becomes hum drum....same old, same old....nothing new, rather boring. There is no more mystery.
The truth is that true love is not based on beauty alone. There is a need to really get to know someone for their inner qualities that reach far beyond sex and visual excitement. This connection takes time....we learn how to accept the good and the bad...we don't really want to learn about bad later.
Because, if we do not make this connection, after the looks are gone and wrinkles etc start showing up...so is our relationship.
The point is: if you really like a girl and you desire to be with her a lot, and to continue the relationship, you both have to work at keeping it interesting.
So, think up new ideas, new places to go, sites to see, dining experiences...add some excitement to your life. Not every waking moment has to be surrounded by sex or sexual thoughts. Sex should be the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 12:58 PM
maybe you should have less sex. why don't you have a kid? that'll make things interesting for you.
really though, if you 'started' there, and can't find anything else cool or different or exciting to do... idk... people that are into BDSM are usually very creative and rarely ask "what now".
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 01:00 PM
i dont think i can get bored of my girlfriend. maybe i'll get bored of her after an intense weekend, but i mean its just a natural thing that comes and goes, sometimes
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 01:13 PM
boredom = lack of imagination... IMHO sorry