Girls asking guys?
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 03:06 PM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 03:23 PM
pays the bill: I pay mine most times.
first move: depends on the situation. Also, if it follows to many rules...bleh
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 04:42 PM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 04:55 PM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 08:26 PM
I used to think that too dude, but I think that's more of a hyped up myth than it is anything else. It's really easy to ask a woman out, and unless she's seeing someone, finds you unattractive ( which goes both ways ), or is genuinely busy, you won't normally get a no. Well, unless you act really creepy or something!
Both men and women are brought up on that stereotype, and even though many people pridefully rebel against it, it's pretty universal that people like to be asked out, or have an interest taken in them by someone.
When it comes to asking the opposite sex for a relationship, all things are equal given you've both had time to spend around one another and there's something there. Sadly a lot of guys I know think they should ask a girl to be with them after a first date or something, and get rejected for taking things to fast.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 08:54 PM
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 01:09 AM
It's much more preferable to sitting around hoping and waiting and hoping and waiting and hoping. Both men and women should be free to do the asking.
I've only done a cold approach twice though. I much prefer being acquainted with the guy a bit first because of safety and all. That's probably irrational but whatever, lol.
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 01:12 AM
Posted Thu Aug 13, 2009 06:05 PM
It depends on you. If you're not comfortable asking out guys, then you don't have to.
The way I see it, the person who does the asking should be the person who does the paying.
Posted Thu Aug 13, 2009 06:16 PM
As for first move and bill paying, if your in a relationship should be 50/50 in all areas
Posted Thu Aug 13, 2009 06:38 PM
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 02:08 AM
mayb i should give it a try...
and as for bill, i think go-dutchs the way to go
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 02:10 AM
My parents, of course, find this type of behavior "extremely appalling."
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 07:11 AM
i have never had my girl pay for a date. i think she took me out for my birthday one year and i still wouldn't let her pay the whole thing. but then again she doesn't make much money and i kinda do, i make 5x more than her anyway.. how could i let her pay lol.
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 01:46 PM
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 06:00 PM
Depends on the girl / guy.. We split the bill, buy each other gifts, etc.. have a great relationship and been together for 6 yrs.
Posted Fri Aug 14, 2009 10:30 PM
Posted Sat Aug 15, 2009 03:03 PM
Posted Sat Aug 15, 2009 03:22 PM