Posted Sun Sep 18, 2005 04:20 PM
cos i've kinda...leaked twice. but never squirted. is it plainly a g-spot thing or what? please help me squirt!
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2005 04:30 PM
as for you, everyone is different, you just have to find out for yourself. you may be able to do it with just your g-spot, or with double stimulation of your spot and clit.
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2005 04:31 PM
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2005 04:38 PM
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2005 06:05 PM
First of all, forget what you see in porn movies and read in porn stories. Most women ejaculate a small amount. A little fluid pops out. It isn't usually a long squirt that shoots far, though that can happen too; every woman is different.
The fluid that gets ejaculated builds up in a gland when there is sexual stimulation. Almost any arousal can start it filling up in some women; in other women, it starts with clitoral stimulation; and in some women it is more from g-spot stimulation.
When the gland gets full, the urge to empty it can be strong and sexual, and releasing it can feel like an orgasm, or can be part of an orgasm. I find that it feels like a lot more fluid is flowing out than there actually is.
Stimulating the g-spot is important for some women when they want to ejaculate. The g-spot itself becomes bigger and more sensitive--and therefore easier to find--when there is sexual arousal and stimulation. This means that a sexual session should probably start with stimulation in other areas, such as the clitoris, before going for the g-spot.
One thing I find interesting is that the longer I go before an orgasm, the more full it feels, and the more pleasurable the ejaculation is. This means that sometimes I hold back having an orgasm to increase that particular pleasure. This conflicts with my usual habit of going for an orgasm as fast as I can, then moving on to the next one. Neither way is right or wrong; these are just different options.
We lay a big towel down when we have sex. It frees us to be messy, including the possibility that I might squirt. Sometimes the flowing feeling goes on and on, and I'm just sure I've flooded the world this time. When I can open my eyes afterward, I look to see if we need to change the sheets, or if my husband needs to shower, or if we need to mop the floor. But of course it's never that much.
One more thought: Try tasting what comes out. You might find it very personal and arousing.