Moaning during oral...what does it for him/her?
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 04:47 PM
For her, she moans and whimpers when I finish teasing her pussy opening and slowly make my first pass over her clit/hood.
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 04:52 PM
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:06 PM
What can I say...I'm easy.
Thanks for the reply hun.
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:16 PM
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:19 PM
I'm the same way, but she isn't. She moans and whimpers a lot, but rarely does she talk dirty while I'm eating her pussy. She says she "concentrates" on things. I guess I'm THAT good that she doesn't wanna waste any pleasure thinkning about what to say.
That was a very erotic reply btw
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:24 PM
I noticed after i posted that there was a lot of ducks lol,
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:26 PM
If ya don't mind, why are you not fond of oral? If you need some help with clitoral stimulation which would bring you to orgasm from having your pussy licked, you're in the right place
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:34 PM
well to be honest I think my problem is pshyoclogical (or how ever that is spelled)
I was molested by my dad, and although that does not stop me from enjoying sex I think it is because he never really had sex with me, all he did was touch me down there, french kiss me, and go down on me, I seem to be very uncomfertable haveing someone touch me, rick really does not , we don't have normal foreplay, I get myself wet and help him get hard by touching licking sucking or what ever but he does not do the same for me, and I think it is because he knows i tence up, the going down thing really really bothers me, the times he has done it I was extreamly uncomfertable, and I would actualy have flash backs of my dad doing that, I am hoping I can get over this, but you see he is not really very skilled at oral on me and trys to "pull the little man out of the boat, and stuff, maybe if I let someone who can make me feel good and not just hurt or uncomfertable I would enjoy that more...
I know this was not the thread to put this on, but you asked
and Im not looking for sympathy, thats not why i put it there for others to see, it is just to let ya know why i am the way i am
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:38 PM
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:43 PM
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:46 PM
It's never too late to get help.
About your partner, he may not know what to say. I've had a bunch of years training in the field of psychology, and I'm still far from an expert in the subject. Abuse is best dealt with by someone who has special training in traumatic therapy issues.
Most counselors around here have a childrens area in their office where the kiddies can play while you're in therapy sessions.
Just something to think about. The choices are ultimately up to you.
Posted Mon Sep 26, 2005 05:51 PM