Help To Improve Sex Drive
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 01:55 AM
I'm posting for the first time. I'm needing some help to improve my wife to be in 4 days :-) sex drive or be able to reach orgasm. We have been having sex for a little over two years and she has never reached orgasm which really suxs none of her past partners have been able to make her either so wanting some tips on what might work. My penis is 7" in length and 5" girth erect. If thats the problem or could be that this is my first sexual experience. She doesn't have that bigger sex drive either. I got offended and hurt the other day when she said she gets bored sumtimes during sex. Could be that I'm just crap at sex i don't know. So any can help that would be a big help and if you needa know anything else please ask. Thanks
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 02:47 AM
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 02:53 AM
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 03:01 AM
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 05:44 AM
Foreplay is something at 23 that you might not do a lot of...cause if you are like many guys, it is tough to hold back. So at that age, it is an art well learned...and it takes patience...usually it takes at least 15 or 20 minutes for a woman to become ready. (think about your Grandmother so you don't boil over) Please do not analyze the size of your penis...it's fine. At the moment of penetration, you both should ready to explode.
Dr. Oz, in answering that same question, says that a woman begins to be aroused 24 hours earlier..(I don't understand why cause a man just needs to hear "C'mon and get it").....which means she thinks about it ahead of the actual event. Anything you do wrong during that time, counts against you. Helping out around the house helps. In her mind, she should be thinking...I could never find a guy as nice as you. Another thing with women, sex is not always about orgasms...more about pleasure. Any high exposure to smoking, alcohol or prescribed drugs might work against it. Women also like to be romanced with a nice meal, soft lights, etc. Because women are sentimental, their sex drive could begin at a Carnival or walk on the beach long before the actual event.
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 09:08 AM
ya gotta work at this! you can't just say she has a low sex drive- stimulate her mind before you think about stimulating her pussy and she'll want it.
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 12:59 PM
One word: FOREPLAY
Most women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation, ya know. Use manual and oral stimulation - even a vibrator.. Does she masturbate to orgasm? She should know what pushes her button....
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 07:02 PM