First of all, sorry if theres 2 of these, I cant seem to find the first one I did.
Hi, My wife and I have been together for years and we're really happy.
Recently we've discovered our new sexual energies and have talked about meeting up with similar people.
The problem is I've always suffered from premature ejaculation, but our sex life hasn’t suffered because of it, I always make sure my wife comes at least once during foreplay, no matter what state I'm in. She's been really good about it all.
In the last year or so I have been trying to do something about it, exercises, mental control, tablets, numbing cream, bands and finally I'm going to see a sex therapist.
The thing I'd like to ask everyone is that if we do meet up with other couples / parties, how would I be received?
I'm ok with foreplay now, especially if I throw a couple off before hand! but the actual sex only lasts for about 20 secs, and compared to how I used to be, its a record!!
I know that people can go on for ages and to be with a group of people who do this regularly, I feel that I could easily get embarrassed.
Well what do ya think?
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