Tips for a beginner
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 01:40 PM
Lost & Unbound
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 02:16 PM
I know alot of men just jump on and pump away not caring about how good it is for the lady, but if you can stimulate her the way she wants to be stilulated you will get to have the most awesome sex of your lives.
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 03:53 PM
That's her problem.
Especially if she does nothing to clue you in on what would satisfy her.
About your inexperince: Communication, exploration and experimentation are the best ways to satisfy both partners.
Some women love to turn a naive boy into a man.
I can't give you any tips because I don't know what your gf likes, you have to discover that yourselves.
Every lady is different.
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 03:59 PM
Yea, get another girlfriend.
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 04:02 PM
Lost & Unbound
wow that is wrong she just says negative things about you sexual performance. i have never and will never do this to a man i am with . That is such an "ego" downer. you need to leave her and find a "REAL WOMAN" that will treat you right.
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 04:15 PM
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 06:39 PM
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 08:49 PM
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 08:58 PM
I don't just dive in. I work it slow. I start with the panties still on. ( I have a bit of a panty fetish). I gently kiss all around the edge of her panties gently pulling the panties to one side and lightly running my tongue up her slit to her clit and back down again.
Occasionally doing it through her panties. Then I pull her panties off and work my way from her hole to her clit and tease her clit with my tongue by moving my tongue back and forth and up and down and then sucking on it.
I don't stay on their as I don't want to de-sensitize it. I stop completely and kiss around her pussy and then I make my way back to her hole and push my tongue in and out, them back up to her clit. I run my fingers up to her hole and slide a couple in while working her clit again.
At this point she's about to let loose so I slow it down for just a sec then I take her over the top by coming on strong on her clit and sliding my fingers in and out quickly.
.... this works for me every time!
Posted Tue Sep 01, 2009 11:06 PM
If she's lost much of her sexual attraction to you, it'll be difficult to get her excited. (Unless your not getting her excited is the reason she's not attracted, in which case see above.)
There are a gazillion books and articles (online and off) on the subject. Only tip I can think of that maybe you should follow is don't ignore the rest of her body (don't just focus exclusively on her pussy/tits) and never jump straight into it--always tease a bit (think: anticipation).
If nothing works, then perhaps you really do need to find another girl that's a bit more into it and eager to try new things.
Posted Wed Sep 02, 2009 01:21 AM
Posted Wed Sep 02, 2009 01:53 AM
Posted Wed Sep 02, 2009 07:56 AM
foreplay came natural, i kinda love to eat pussy.
just don't be afraid of pussy and you can't be too bad at it! ive seen some guys eat pussy like they were licking a frozen pole on a street corner in the middle of winter.
fingering is easy- go for the gspot and you can't go wrong, even if you don't hit it. rub the clit alot.
and if she's talkin to some dude about going to live with him, i'd have to tell her to fuck off before i got physical in a bad way.
tying her up and blindfolding her is a good idea. also take all of her pants and underwear and put them in a different room in the house (or out in the hallway if its an apartment). lmao that'd be sweet of you.
Posted Wed Sep 02, 2009 11:55 PM
Ouch. I'd have to really hate a woman to go to those lengths and just leave her like that...talk about walking away from a buffet when you're starving.
Well, now you know what to do. You no longer need to bother trying to pleasure her, as she no longer deserves the effort.
(And no, I don't wanna see your cock...but I can't say the same of the female (and some male ) members on this forum.)
Posted Thu Sep 03, 2009 01:28 AM
From kissing, move from her lips to the side of her neck. Don't bite just yet. Kiss lightly then suck gently. Not too much to where you cause a hickie. Then bite down lightly.
Move your hand to the back of her head and tangle them in her hair. From what I've been told, they like that feeling. Then move it from the hair to the her back. Then do your thing and doing be too urgent to groping her chest but take your time and you'll know when the time is right.
when it comes to fingering, the "hook" is great. If you know where the G-spot rub your fingers up in that general area. Communicate with her on where it is and how she likes it. If you don't communicate, you won't know what she's thinking and plus you won't know what she likes.
Oral sex is probably the next step. This is vital for pushing her over the top. Start by teasing her by licking or kissing from her neck to her boobs. Play with the nipples for a little, suck and lick them. After slowly kiss her toward her vagina, kiss the inner thigh lightly. The key is keep things lightly unless if she tells you to kiss, lick, or suck harder. When it comes to the vagina, lick her gently and just so it doesn't get repetitive, lick her in the shape of the letter of the alphabet. ABCDE..., etc. just to change it up for her. If you want to add a little more spice to this, finger her as well. You're hand may get a little tired so use your more dominant hand.
So yeah. That is the gist of it. If you want another tips or anything, just PM me.
Posted Thu Sep 03, 2009 01:32 AM
Posted Thu Sep 03, 2009 02:06 AM
That is funny as!!!!