she said just friends, any advice?
Posted Tue Sep 08, 2009 04:05 AM
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Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 06:33 PM
There are plenty of other girls out there who would love to have a guy adore them half as much as you adore this girl. Put yourself out there man, love comes from the most unlikeliest of places.
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 06:50 PM
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 08:32 PM
All I can add is that perhaps you could say to her clearly, calmly and concisely that you cannot in good conscience be "just friends" feeling the way you do about her, so it wouldn't be fair to her or you to hang out anymore.
If she's as great as you say she is, she should be taken aback by your directness, which shows maturity, which shows that you're a real man (as in, not boyish), which means that you're not her bro anymore, which means that she may very well be thinking of you as a sexual partner in the coming days/weeks/months (once the instinct to view you as a bro wears off--it happens in other primate species as well and is normal...but unlike you, they're usually stuck that way once it happens).
So suck it up and do what needs to be done.
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 09:26 PM
Drop it, unless she changes her mind *really* soon, don't waste yourself on her.
Posted Thu Sep 10, 2009 12:12 AM
DO NOT get stuck being the guy she always talks to for hours about her feelings, then shes out fucking someone else. thats the worst, because your playing the B/F role without the benefits. tread carefully, but the situation wont ever change unless her mind changes. theres nothing you can do to help her change her mind either.
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