Wife is Never in the Mood
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 05:26 PM
My wife and I have been together for a little over 4 years. i am 28 and she is 25. we recently got married almost a year ago. like everyone, we were like rabbits when we first got together. it slowly tapered off like they all do. that was fine. we got to a once/twice a week routine and that was fine. a few months before the wedding it started getting worse and i just assumed it was stress of the planning. well, its been over 2 months since the last time we had sex and i am dieing. we finally had a good sit down talk about it last night and she has no answer. i asked if there was something i was doing that maybe annoyed her and contributed to the lack of desire, or if there was something i could do to help. she had no answer. she says she is still very attracted to me, but just doesnt get in the mood. i am in the mood quite a bit lately and porn isnt doing any good. it barely curbs the urges anymore.
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 05:31 PM
Is she on birth control? Is it stress related?
Is there any possibility marriage is not what she fantasised it to be?
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 07:45 PM
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 07:54 PM
Posted Wed Sep 09, 2009 08:13 PM
Posted Thu Sep 10, 2009 06:27 AM
Posted Thu Sep 10, 2009 06:34 AM
Posted Thu Sep 10, 2009 09:20 AM
Take care of the housework. Cook dinner. Get EVERYTHING else off of her mind. Then seduce her with some soft music and some wine.
Now, with the lack of details here i am really just grasping at straws. But usually if i'm not in the mood, i've got other things on my mind, more pressing matters, etc. If he helps me out, the quicker we fall into the sack.
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 06:30 AM
My wife is a tell it like it is person. if she had any problems with my looks, she would tell me.
well everyone, we finally got down to it last night. probably top 10 best sex we have ever had. i really put out the effort for her and didnt worry much about myself, in hopes that if it was really good, she would remember it and it might spark her for more. we will see though. i really appreciate everyone's ideas and i will update as it goes
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 10:39 PM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 04:45 PM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 04:49 PM
Good you made an effort before you went after other women, "cause she is getitng cold"...
Posted Tue Sep 15, 2009 08:37 AM
Posted Wed Sep 16, 2009 05:11 PM
also, it would take a lot longer than 2 months for me to look elsewhere. my wife and i get along great. after 4.5 years together we really havent had a serious argument or anything. we are pretty solid
Posted Wed Sep 16, 2009 05:17 PM
do you have a brother? Single? lol
Seriously, though, it's nice of you to see it that way
Posted Wed Sep 16, 2009 05:35 PM
anyway, thats off topic. lol
Posted Mon Sep 21, 2009 08:03 PM
Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 01:20 AM
Oh me too!! I went crazy with these pills and eventully stop taking it... or just switched to different one with less hormons in it.
Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 01:49 AM