Anal Sex Tips.
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 06:01 PM
We are trying to get into it again but this time we are starting out slow by practicing with toys. Anal beads and a little vibrator.
The problem she keep finding still is that it feels weird, sometimes uncomfortable, and she always feel like she need to go to the bathroom when she doesn't.
She is looking for some serious tips or tricks to help her out.
Is there anything special she should do/try/use?
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 06:36 PM
The big deal with anal is getting used to things and taking it slow. You'll also probably want a butt plug where the width is about half that of your penis. Just start slow, with the little vibrator, then move up to the beads or the plug (whichever is smaller), then the next larger. As you move up in size, take the speed down.
Perhaps her set the pace with the toys. Have her try using them on herself. There's another thread where I gave something like a step-by-step on anal. Just do a quick search for it.
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 06:50 PM
Also like stated above, using a butt plug is very helpful prior to trying your cock. I used one years ago as well to prime myself for him entering and it helps with that initial feeling and relaxes the area nicely. It made entry by him so much easier then without using the plug prior. Now I just use anal plugs and dildos for the fun I can have with them, but for starting out it's a good thing to try. And she can try on her own solo as well, she may feel more comfortable exploring that area alone so she can become more comfortable with you when you two try anal again.
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 03:19 AM
Ya we are planning on getting a butt plug sometime soon. thank you for your help.
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 08:03 AM
I was in the same position as you but now my gf and i both love anal.
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