Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 09:16 PM
also, i can't make myself cum by just using fingers in my ass.. is that normal? i get really horny but not able to cum.. any ideas?
Posted Fri Sep 11, 2009 09:33 PM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 01:12 AM
I hate to say it, but you're out of luck then. You'll need to either start using household objects (like brush handles) or buy a dildo. If you're worried about making a mess, just put a condom over whatever you're using.
I'd suggest picking up two or three dildos, of different sizes. One pretty small one, one half the size of the one you want to use, and one the size you want. You can pick up a 6.5" rubber dildo with a suction cup for about $25 from a reputable sex shop.
It probably is a good idea. It'll make everything easier. Especially if you'll be using anything other than your fingers.
That's rather normal. You can't reach in there far enough, probably, to reach the prostate, so you're only experiencing a fraction of what you can feel when doing anal properly.
I'm working on it.
What on earth is a Gimp?
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 10:40 AM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 11:38 AM
I have never had an orgasm from anal play but have ejaculated.
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 04:17 PM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 05:26 PM
was alwys curious
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 10:07 PM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 10:20 PM
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:34 AM
I'm Bi-Curious, but I have heard a lot of straight guys who have found this interesting. And it makes a lot of sense: your anus does have nerve endings that some people may find pleasurable when stimulated, and the prostate is certainly a huge bundle of happy nerves that love to be stimulated.
fuck toy said:
From what I've read, prostate milking is nothing like orgasming. It's a different experience, some say it's not as pleasurable as an orgasm, but still quite pleasurable. I'd love to try it myself, but I'm rather convinced that it will be impossible for me to reach my prostate with just a finger, unless I get a couple ribs removed or something.
You're describing stimulating the area known as the Perineum. You can stimulate your prostate a bit that way, but you'll never reach prostate-milking levels of stimulation.
Working on it
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:35 AM
was alwys curious
I've never heard of it before, and I have heard some people say that it is impossible.
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:41 AM
was always curious
what I do is while anally masturbating I jerk off normally and when I get very close to cumming I stop jerking and I cum, but because I wasn't jerking off I'm still hard and ready to go again right away
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 09:30 AM
Exactly! Great feeling isn't it?
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 09:52 AM
Homosexuality means attraction to the same sex. There are no ifs, no buts and no exceptions to this and thus no practices or behaviour that do not involve an attraction to the same sex which can be called homosexual.
Seriously, what the hell is homosexual about anal play? The only type of anal play which can be considered homosexual is when a guy has anal intercourse with another guy.
Many gay couples give each other handjobs, does this mean jerking off is "for homosexuals"?
As for myself. Sometimes I insert my finger, and other times brush handles etc. My gf always puts her finger in there when giving me a handjob and it feels great. I want to get a toy soon though. The aneros intrigues me, but I'd also be interested in a vibrator and/or beads.
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 01:05 PM
Posted Thu Sep 17, 2009 10:31 AM
Posted Sat Sep 19, 2009 06:16 PM
My girlfriend and I have played around with anal toys since May 09 and have been maintaining a routine of play (until she left for Germany).
I purchased a gel anal dildo for her to get her ass ready for penetration, as well as for dp when I fuck her pussy and can work her ass with the dildo at the same time.
We later went out to one of our local sex shops (Night Magic Fashions, check it out if it's local to you) and I bought an anal dildo designed for simple penetration. This single toy has caused me to cum extremely hard in the past and as a result is one of my favorites.
Before leaving for Germany, she purchased a rubber plug 5.25" long, 1.5" diameter that is designed for prostate stimulation. It also has a cavity to add a bullet vibe so you can massage your prostate. It definitely works wonders.
I've also purchased recently a Nexus Excel which I have mixed feelings about. It's incredibly easy to use, has a roller ball for perineum stimulation so it feels good. However, I find it really awkward to use without anyone there to work it on me.
My girlfriend also massages my prostate while working on my cock, giving me giant orgasms.
The important thing with anal play is to always use lube.
Posted Fri Sep 25, 2009 03:29 PM