Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 04:55 PM
She recently got a new job. First day on the job, a female asks if her boobs are real, as she has 36Ds. Second day on the job, the girl asked if my girlfriend had a butt. After this, I told my girlfriend that the girl is definitely into her, and a lesbian. Third day, the girl straight out tells my GF that she first looks at boobs, and admits she is bi. Well during this day, my GF is texting me during work, joking about going bi and how the girl is telling her all about her toys, etc. My GF is usually pretty conservative and never talks about our sex life. I ask if maybe she did, and she says yes, and will tell me about it later.
Turns out what she "told" her is really the other girl was asking how open she is, if she would try everything once, etc. Nothing really about our sex life, besides what we haven't tried. This girl lives by a "You only live once" motto. My GF comes home considering trying an open relationship now. My GF on the other hand, has always told me since day 1, if I wanted sex and couldn't get it from her, I can get it from another girl. But apparently now,she really means it.
I know it isn't that I am small. I am hung just a little over 7". I am pretty thick too, and length wise, I know my GF cannot physically handle more. This bisexual girl is influencing my GF, and I am not sure if it is in a way I am OK with, but I refuse to ruin any more of my GF's friendships. Now if she opens up and can turn my GF into someone who likes giving head and maybe set up a FFM for me, I think I could be happy. On the other hand, I don't think I could handle my GF banging another dude. Because if we are having sex, I want me to be the best she has had, so she doesn't wish she had a different guy banging her at that time. She doesn't think that will happen, because since we love each other, it will always be the best, which I can understand. So it seems to be more of a "If you are horny, get laid" type mentality.
I remember seeing the other thread about 3somes, but this is different. I am not sure if my GF is just impacted by the only living once motto, if she is curious about other guys since I am just about everything she ever had, if she is bored with me, or what. Knowing my GF, I don't think she would be one to intentionally try and get another guy, but again, it would just be taking care of being horny, thats it. I am not sure if she would ever even do it.
I just don't know what to think. The Bi girl is saying open relationships can strengthen things, which I could see it maybe helping trust, but after a long while.
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 08:36 PM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 08:42 PM
What was your question, again?
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 09:51 PM
Whats the issue, sounds like heaven to me
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 10:16 PM
So its like... does she love me any more? Or whats wrong? I don't think she would necessarily find another guy though.
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