So so confused
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 05:11 PM
I don't know what the problem is here. Well I kinda do but I want a fresh scope on it.
Me and my g/f had a massive argument about 3 weeks ago, where I got jealous and paranoid about e constantly texting another man, and ignoring me to talk to him all night long. It got so heated that she walked out at about 1:30 in the morning to go to his house. She claimed that she was going to stay there for 2 weeks claiming that she needed some space, which I agreed with. She called me 2 days later saying she missed me and wanted to come home, which I immediatly agreed to. Who wouldn't? Now we came to the agreement that she wouldn't go running off to his every weekend, and so far she has. She dropped it on me that she wanted to go next weekend and the weekend after too. 5 weeks in a row she wants to stay with him.
Now I don't know if I am being paranoid again, but surly that's too much. I work stupid shifts between 8am and 10pm. So I won't et to see her alot in the week with work etc, but is it too much to ask for a weeken together? Just us 2. Doesn't matter if we go out or stay in. But 2 whole days out of 7 once in a while ain't alot to ask?
My main question to her is that I son want to be played like a fool. I ask if she is sleeping with him and I get my head bitten off. Do I no have a right to know if she is sleeping with him. If she is then it's over, and she knows that. Part of me thinks that she is but the bigger part of me knows thy she is not. She fuels the rumours by going to his every weekend.
Should I be worried? Should I end it? I don't want to en it but she has run off there again tonight because of an argument. She won't stay and talk, she just runs to him!!
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 06:49 PM
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Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 07:08 PM
Brother , she has no respect/consideration/empathy for you , you deserve better than the treatment your getting here . Look in the mirror & talk to the guy you'll see there & take his advise , he knows whatcha need to do .....
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2009 07:12 PM
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Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 04:21 AM
Well an update on this for ya'll.
We split last week (
Now i'm still so very confused. Last week, i didnt sleep a wink. Maybe 4-5 hours in 5 days. I was devestated, but after all the arguments over this problem I decided it was the best thing.
Last night I got the best nights sleep ever. But she didnt, she says she hasnt slept for days, and since she has been on twiter at stupid oclock in the morning, i am inclined to beleive her.
My Question to you all now is, is it right to feel you have made the worst decision of your life. Te end a 3 year relationship, and then she starts realising that she has been a bit of a muppet about it. or is this what women do?
I want her to be happy, and I want to keep her in my life. But I cant stand seeing her upset or down/depressed about this. Im not saying i am gonna welcome her straight back, but i dont know what to say to her to try and make it better.
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 11:56 AM
Excuse me but fuck that!! Having her in your life is the LAST thing you need. If she is hurt it's because she has acted like a spoiled child and needs to grow up. It may be the best thing ever for her long term if she is hurt. Unacceptable behavior comes with a price and it's time she learned that. Get on with your life. Cut off all contact with her and move on.