Premature Ejaculation Problem.
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 04:22 AM
Every time now when I have sex I penetrate and have sex for about 40 seconds or about a minute (if that) then I cum and go soft. After that it takes me awhile to get hard again, maybe like an hour or so. But even after that it just happens again and again.
This has been really depressing to me, to know that I can't even stay hard or please my girlfriend the way she likes. After trying out many different male supplements like horny goat weed and others I have gone to taking Levitra. This works but I do not want to be dependent on Levitra plus it also cost a good amount of money. (I get it from someone so I pay less than behind the counter, but still)
I am 5' 10" and about 190 pounds. I am not in the best of shape but I am still pretty healthy, (I do need to do more outside activities or workout though). I have no money and no health insurance so I can't really go see a doctor because I do not have the money. I need some help because I don't want to be 19 and having to take Levitra every time I want to actually have sex for more than 40 seconds. I makes me so mad that I almost don't want to have sex because I know how lame and quick it will be.
Please help, any advice is welcome.
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 05:39 AM
Just kicking out ideas here.
You could also try masturbating one hour before.
If you guys are not into oral, (she might not like the taste) try a little ANBESOL (tooth numb) on the sensitive areas of the head 5-10 minutes before.
And it can be a too much heat issue.
Try this....after you shoot your first load, excuse yourself to the bathroom..tell her to "keep her motor running".Wash your penis with cold water on a wash cloth to cool it down...return and have more foreplay...then try again. I'm betting you can go around again in much less time.
As time goes on, it will get better as you drift away from your sexual peak.
You could also try POWER V carried by many drugstores. It's cheap enough. Just don't use too much. Take a minimum dose. I do not think it will control it like Levitra, but it might help you recover faster.
Another thought...try cooling your penis before your first session to see if that slows it down.This session, have as little foreplay on you as possible. Good luck.
Come back and let us know if anything helped. This thread will be here.
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2009 02:44 PM
Just a couple things.
Like my girlfriend doesn't like foreplay so we go straight into sex. Also have tried the masturbating thing a while before and she has also gave me oral right before we have sex.
With the oral, ya it does take longer to cum but then there is still that down time. And unfortunately after the first ejaculation (with in 40 seconds of vaginal penetration) after the recovery time it just happens again, like another 40 second fuck.
So I try to keep positive and I want to have sex and try to keep going but I just go soft. I have masturbated before hand, gotten a bj before sex, and had sex like 5 times in one day seeing if the time would increase, but every time I penetrated its still only 40 seconds or so till I ejaculate.
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Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 05:02 AM
Learn to live with it or work around it...you are at or near your sexual peak...trust me, it will get better. You can do many times now...later when you have a choice of sex or a nap, you'll want to talk about after you wake up.
That will all go away...it does on most guys, but they , trying to be macho...seldom admit it. By the time you reach 60 or so, it will be only once or twice a week...if that. And there will be times you just barely can make it. Your semen quantity will reduce to only be a dribble...your desire much less. And foreplay will become your biggest friend. That's why older guys go for the sex enhancers trying to bring back those days again of being exactly your age when things were so good. The foreplay is for her...not you...so she will be satisfied. If you have an unsatisfied woman around, you go through hell. That 90 seconds should be the climax for both of you....whether 1st, 2nd or how many times you do it.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 02:07 PM