My ex and I broke up 2 months ago, after a 10 month relationship. Since then I've been declinging in my happiness. I was great for a while, actually climbing up in spirits, but now I'm coming down and hitting the lowlyness of depression, like I had before her and I went out.
Now, it's not so much that I miss her, but I miss having someone - I miss having someone I know is there for me undoubtedly - someone a little more special than anyone else I know.
I've got a few girls I like right now, two in particular - neither do I know what to do...
Girl 1: I've liked her for about 7 years, and now that her and I are hanging out more as teenagers, I'm beginning to like her a lot more. The thing is, I'm a better friend than candidate for boyfriend - a curse I seem to have with girls I really like. I'm not too hung up on her, because I've been attracted for a long time - longer's not going to kill me.
If anyone's experienced something similar and has overcome it in one way or another, please answer in regards to Girl 1.
Now, Girl 2: Wow - I've just started liking her - started off with physical attractions, as most infatuations do, and now that I've gotten over a fear of speaking with her I've come to like her more... We're on a friendly basis - but not a good friend basis like I have with most of the other people in my Yearbook class. I've still got a bit of a fear of her... I don't know why - maybe because she's had more boyfriends than me? It doesn't make sense - It's not in my character to fret over speaking, or being myself, around a girl at all. Infact, I'm usually a complete imbasil around females because I love to make them smile, and often succeed.
Any advice on how to get over my fear... my anxiety... my uncertainty in myself - whichever you think it may be - I think it's the latter, which is only going to hold me back, concidering most girls dig a confident guy more than a cocky/unconfident guy. Any advice on anything pertaining to getting a relationship started would be excellent.
More along the lines of Girl 2, simply because... I dont know - but any advice at all would be excellent!
Hey - even Mods need help
I'm excellent when it comes to maintaining or ending a relationship softly, but getting one started up is difficult for me... Crazy, eh?
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