Who has cheated...
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 08:03 PM
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 08:18 PM
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 08:44 PM
Oh and I ah.. have morals *cough*
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2009 10:26 PM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 01:18 AM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 03:51 AM
If you do anything that your partner would frown upon, it could be considered cheating. The word "cheating" is rather iffy, has several levels and depends on your partners guidelines and your own conscience. In this context, I think we have all cheated a little.
For someone to have an outright affair in secrecy, I have no idea how they sleep at night. It could be medical issues, or staying together for the children or some other obscure reason, but it never makes any sense to me. The penalty of getting caught outweighs any possible advantage. Gregorio
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 03:57 AM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 07:02 AM
I value my relationship and my girlfriend far too much to ruin it.
And also the reason people cheat is usually because of boring sex and/or a more attractive person comes along...my girlfriend is the most beautiful woman i have ever met and our sex is amazing so i would just be downgrading myself and ruining the best thing ever to happen to me for nothing
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 10:58 AM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 11:37 AM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 02:10 PM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 02:42 PM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 03:40 PM
Haha....yeh...being a member of an online sex forum is surely indicative of lacking morals....
I have thought about it. Even posted a thread about my struggles here so I could get a proper kick in the ass.
Now I would find a hard time if anyone said they hadn't been tempted. Thats just a part of existing.
I have had several opportunities, but my conscience kicks in. I can't stand to see my girl cry, and it would kill her. Hell, it would eat me alive if I did.
So never have and never will. Everything to lose and nothing to gain.
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 04:00 PM
Please don't think I meant it like that I am not attacking anyone's morals, just making lite of the fact that there isn't a cheater among us
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 06:04 PM
just love it said:
I wouldn't say that, but from the replies being completely negative, people who HAVE either have no interest broadcasting that information here or haven't gotten around to it yet.
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 07:58 PM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 10:42 PM
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 10:49 PM
And now, 20 years later I am in an open marriage... We both fool around - though she gets more than me - Rats - those internet dating / affair sites are brutal for old married guys lol!
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2009 11:34 PM
I don't really consider it cheating, but I had been doing stuff with a regular and ocasional jerkbuddys while being in a relationship. I went throught this with two grilfriends, same buddy. One never knew and with the other there was a knowledge from her (I never knew if she smelled it, saw it, heard me, I never actually told her!), but she never made a big deal about it, she even joked about this referring to my mate as "your boyfriend", sending us "to get a room" when we started fooling around and calling me "---" like people do call "midget" short people to tease them. She kinda respected it even when I never had the guts to bring it up to her.
Posted Fri Oct 02, 2009 08:22 PM