Some ?s for women about orgasms
Posted Fri Oct 02, 2009 06:47 PM
My question is, do you as a woman feel cheated if you don't have an orgasm? Are you intimidated to tell or guide a lover how to make you touch the gates of Heaven with his cock, tongue or some other instrument? This is when you are in the mood, too, and not faking it to shut him up so you can go to sleep.
To me, the greatest pleasure of sex, aside from my own orgasm, is holding my lover as she shivers coming back to Earth from her orgasm. Are most women raised to be too ladylike to cum, cum only when they're in the mood or what?
Also, please no responses that your lover knows how to make you cum just by looking at you a certain way. Bully for you. For the rest of us, will you tell us --graciously -- what brings you to orgasm or what you think we guys should "instinctively" know?
Posted Fri Oct 09, 2009 04:09 PM
Unfortunately some women can't orgasm from intercourse and some women, even women who love sex never do. It is quite often the case these women can orgasm from oral sex or masterbation. Don't feel bad if you aren't making your partner orgasm, if it concerns you talk to her about it, ask her if thee is something you can do better or more of (or less of).
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 01:28 PM
Posted Wed Oct 14, 2009 07:27 PM
Posted Thu Oct 15, 2009 09:57 PM
Most women can't orgasm with just intercourse. Most women also need clitoral stimulation. Again I said most, not all.
Posted Thu Oct 15, 2009 10:22 PM
i believe that and i have seen it personally.
Posted Fri Oct 16, 2009 02:54 AM
clues .... duchesspink wrote a pretty good description of oral on another thread. my advice is to make sure you know the good spot and how to make it feel amazing. and don't forget a girl's mind, it's highly erogenous and needs loads of attention. that means, be vocal!!
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:32 AM
Even if I didn't cum I wouldn't feel cheated. Sex alone is pleasurable and I can't complain. Sex itself is just great!
It is unfortunate that, not all women can orgasm from intercourse alone. Some women may only orgasm through oral sex and masturbation. Every person is different. Some women just happen to be blessed with the ability to orgasm easily, while others require a bit more stimulation.
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:45 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:16 PM
vibrators....everywhere... I have no problems having an orgasm while having
sex, I do know that some women are not as sensative inside as they are outside, one of my friends is that way, she needs to have her clit rubbed
while being fucked to have an orgasm, the only way she cums from an internal
pussy fuck is to have something very thick in her, she has only had an
unassisted intercourse related orgasm maybe 3 times when she went with me
to see my BBC, and watching her have those orgasms was great!!!
Posted Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:51 AM