What's the truth?
Posted Fri Oct 16, 2009 07:37 PM
When I have sex with my woman, she'll orgasm a couple of times when I give her oral sex. Then when having sex, she'll orgasm multiple times and will keep on achieving orgasms until I can't go anymore.
First question. Is it me or is it her? (Both is not the answer I'm looking for)
I'm 6 1/2 inches and she orgasms and seems pleased. Once in a while I'll slip on one of those extender things to get to 9 inches. I can see it in her face that she really enjoys it; more so than when its just me. Afterward she'll say she prefers just me over me with the extender but her body language says otherwise.
Second and third questions. What does she really prefer? Is she just saying that to protect my ego?
Just as a side note, I am very comfortable with who I am and the size I am. Its not an esteem issue at all. what I am looking for is someone who is fully satisfied with me as a person and me as a lover. Is that too much to ask?
I don't want a woman who 'settles' for what she has. Life experience has taught me that eventually a woman will go out searching for 'what's missing' whether it be a 'better person' or a larger penis.
Maybe this is all a losing battle. so now for my last question.
Will women always want someone 'a little bit bigger' if her man is just average in size?
Posted Fri Oct 16, 2009 09:21 PM
And I disagree with the women will eventually search out someone else...I've been with the same guy for almost 10 years straight now and loyal to him, he's given me plenty of reasons to stray due to his idiot moments and cheating on me once. Yet I haven't and he is average sized as well. I would rather break up with someone first before looking for someone else. Just my two cents..not all women are going to stray or look for someone "better" there is no perfect man or woman.
Posted Fri Oct 16, 2009 09:35 PM
As for whether bigger is better, I will share my perspective. A lot of it depends on my cycle. I can tell that things change in there. I don't know if I could take 9 inches on a good day.
My thoughts on size are that if a guy is well endowed, he can be lazier. I may be jaded, but I think most of them are lazier, because they've never had to be any other way. Guys who don't have a huge penis may have to work harder in bed, but it's definitely not a bad thing. The end result is pretty much the same.
What does make a difference, though, is emotional connection. If I have that with a guy, then the sex will be great. If the connection isn't there, sex is just sex. I went for that some when I was younger, but now that I'm in my 30s, I choose my vibo over meaningless sex.
Posted Sat Oct 17, 2009 12:14 AM
If you can make her crazy in bed on your own then don't worry about it. I've had experiences with a few women who go off and say that i'm the best because I'm uncut, or because of what I'm doing in bed.
Your style in the bedroom will always come before your size. That is usually brought up in a disscussion when your girl is feeling unsatisfied. As for the extender thing, if you think she prefers it over you then don't use it. but realize that it is still you using that dick inside her. you're the only one who knows how to use it the way that you do.
So quit worrying so much. Plus, your not using a row boat so the waves won't kill you. Your not a tanker, so you're not going to run a ground. You're a yacht, perfect for taking those pleasurable Personal little trips.
Posted Sat Oct 17, 2009 01:48 AM
Posted Sat Oct 17, 2009 03:12 PM
B A said:
thats very well said.
6.5" isnt even average.
Posted Sun Oct 18, 2009 01:33 PM
Posted Sun Oct 18, 2009 01:45 PM
I am definitely below average and I am proud of that, some girls I can't satisfy with penetration and so I move on to other areas of satisfaction. There is a whole world of sex play left unexplored if you go for just sex everytime. Explore everything and make a morning out of an evening, you'll never get any complaints that way.