WtF .. Sex drive gone?
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2005 10:29 PM
When we first met we were banging 4-5 times a day.. slowly it went down to about 5 times a week... now when we try to do it i have trouble cumming, and we both get too exhausted to keep trying.. and then she gets to thinking she did something wrong, which SUCKS... sometimes i have trouble keepin it up... but the only 2 time that happened i was pretty buzzed/drunk.
Im fucking 24 years old... this is too embarrasing. Yea, im under alot of stress at work, i dont know if thats contributing to it or what... i just dont get it.
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2005 10:43 PM
And, you probably just need to relax (easier said than done) about the "cumming issue". It's a vicious circle, once it happens, you worry about it too much and then it happens again, and again. Try to have sex without putting too much focus on cumming and enjoy the good things you do feel at the time. Before you know it, you'll be on the way to success!!
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2005 11:24 PM
My guess is that you're tired and stressed. Stress and fatigue are the most common things that detract from sex. Try gentler and more relaxed ways to have sex, get more rest in general, and make your time for sex as separate from work and work issues as possible.
Posted Fri Dec 16, 2005 12:10 AM
I do have sex drive problems... Its hard for me to just "attack her" like i used to.. I guess the stress is getting to me.. My business (mortgage business) is kinda hard not to get stressed in..
Posted Fri Dec 16, 2005 12:33 AM
I would even suggest that you have some sessions without sex. Give each other a massage. Go out on a date. Watch a movie. Do something involving your hobbies, and hers.