On birth control now
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 02:54 PM
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 03:33 PM
Anyway, you need to continue to carry protection on for a while after you start the pill, you can't take your first one and then start unprotected sex, so please don't do that unless your planning for a baby or more likely a miscarriage or worse.
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 03:36 PM
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 04:44 PM
I'm not sure how long they take to become effective.
I am sure however oral contaception requires a month to become effective.
Surprise him in a month.
Don't let him know yet, the poor guy will explode before a month is up.
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 07:36 PM
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 08:29 PM
for the first time, and it's been years since. and I have sex a lot, unprotected.
I am pregnant now, but that was my choice to stop taking the BC, and I still
have a lot of sex, more in fact.
before when I started having sex I too was nervous, it had been almost a year on the pill, and I took him in my mouth and let him finish on me, or I
finished him off, but then I got relaxed and getting filled up became common,
and I have loved the feeling ever since, I don't want to go back to not doing
it that way.
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 08:33 PM
And 99% of the time he doesn't pull out, unless I ask him to put it somewhere else, or he just wants to put it somewhere else.
But I would suggest waiting at least a month after going on birth control before you have unprotected sex.
Posted Wed Oct 21, 2009 11:35 PM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:14 AM
Just to be safe though, you should use a back up method. You should wait a month just to be on the safe side. Most require a couple weeks to become effective, but to be certain it's best to to wait a month.
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 07:29 AM
Yeah, what she said.. It's still possible to get pregnant so play it safe if you don't want any little ones.
Posted Tue Oct 27, 2009 11:27 PM
Posted Wed Oct 28, 2009 09:19 AM
Posted Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:51 AM
Posted Wed Oct 28, 2009 04:17 PM
I've been on the Pill for over three years, and my SO and I never use a condom anymore, and we've never had an issue. However, I take the Pill at the exact same time every single day religiously without fail.
Just be careful - and be sure you're doing everything you're supposed to be doing with your birth control - and you shouldn't have to worry.
Posted Wed Oct 28, 2009 06:18 PM