Advice From Men Re: Strapped Down
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 02:04 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 06:32 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 07:17 AM
if its submissive then the main thing is taking away his sense of power and control, tease him a lot, use as many different senses as you can well, definitely blind fold him and don't be afraid to take a long time doing it either, it'll all just add to the excitement. it doesn't have to be about pain at all but if he's into it... a great position tho, if you can get him seated with his wrists restrained above his head, then bend over in front of him, getting your pussy as close to his face as possible without him being able to touch but also with you lightly teasing at his cock... he'll go nuts, great blindfolded or not, up to you.
if its dominant, set clear boundaries before-hand and expect to probably be "made love to" quite hard... hahah
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 09:24 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:50 AM
Blindfold pretty much required.
Besides being sexual, be mysterious.
Move about the room so he can hear you but doesn't know what your getting into.
Sometimes do things similar to move over his restrained body, your breasts only grazing his skin, then proceed to NOT touch him sexually.
Maybe even walk out of the room for a bit, leaving him bewildered.
Anticipation is highly erotic.
Without the sense of sight or using his hands to touch you, his other senses will be aroused far more than usual.
Show up with a secret toy of your own that you don't bring out until he's restrained and blindfolded, such as a feather you use on his face, his chest, his inner thigh.
The inability to reach out, grab you, ride you like a pony express horse, will overwhelm him.
Don't forget to let him get a good smell of your perfume and pussy when he can't touch.
Smell is the most heightened sensation. Nerves in the nasal passages go straight to the brain instead of traveling from his penis thru his body first, nuch more intense.
Once you are riding him or giving a BJ, his lack of ability to caress you or join the thrusts and swallows by guiding with his hands, his loss of cintrol over the sensations will do the job.
That's how I like my special lady friend to do it.
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:57 AM