Problems with sex :(
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:04 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:17 AM
Vaginal stimulation is not an easy thing for him as a beginner to learn or you as a beginner to be in touch with physical/mental connection aspect.
Some women, and I say this because I've read it but never had a problem supplying them, never have a vaginal orgasm.
Practice, practice, practice.
Between practice sessions discuss with him what seemed to work so he can concentrate on the positive.
Read threads on this site, plenty of other posters have similar questions so you can learn a lot.
Practice makes perfect and the best part about sex is there is always something new to practice after one skill is mastered.
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:51 AM
I was worried there was something wrong with me too. The first time I climaxed from intercourse I was on top, I used his shaft like a rubbing post. I actually climaxed twice that way and after the second one just broke down. My bf thought I was going crazy I think it was mostly psychological, am I doing it right, etc. I also was worried about getting PG even though I was on the pill. After the first time climaxes were easier but sometimes elusive. Most of our sex was in my room or his in our parents homes. It wasn't until I went away with him on vacation that I climaxed every time and on a later trip had multiple orgasms.
I have no trouble now with a reasonably sturdy lover who lasts more than 30 seconds.
Relax, you'll do fine!
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:17 PM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:41 PM
Thanks trophywife. Good to know I should just keep trying. So easy just to quit because I dont know what to do and it is so frustrating.
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:12 PM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:35 PM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 01:05 PM
Posted Mon Oct 26, 2009 01:50 PM
Posted Mon Oct 26, 2009 01:56 PM
Two positions I have read about that work for penetration alone are doggy and reverse cowgirl. Those are (from what I have read) the most enjoyable positions from a purely penetration point of view.
The best position for you to climax in, will probably just be cowgirl, rubbing on him instead of bouncing up and down.
Try those and keep us posted
Posted Thu Oct 29, 2009 11:21 AM
his penis inside you.
You want to rub your clit against his pubic hair or pubic bone.
Easier because it involves vaginal and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.
Posted Thu Oct 29, 2009 11:31 AM
Posted Thu Oct 29, 2009 03:15 PM
Posted Sun Nov 08, 2009 12:24 AM
I find anal stimulation wonderful, but he has to know what he's doing. If you're advnenturous enough try dp'ing yourself with him and a dildo--it's alot of naughty fun and TOTALLY gets your imagination going--and imagination is actually where most of the turn-on is isn't it?