Had sex again, but...
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:43 AM
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 11:10 AM
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 12:11 PM
My thought as well.
Why would you want to abstain when she doesn't?
If you are thinking "wait until marriage", it's too late for that.
My personal opinion of adultery is sex without love.
Marriage, man created to "own and control women.
Or is sex "icky"?
Not meaning any offense but a lot of gay men don't realize they are gay until being with a woman doesn't work.
Your thread went into more details of erotic literature than was clear in your question.
If I knew more I could answer more succintly.
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 03:20 PM
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 03:58 PM
If you want each other do it.
And yes your body needs it.
Sex is lierally a physically necessary release.
Why not want to do what you are programmed naturally to do?
You are by no means a sex addict.
I don't understand why you would not do it as desired for you and your partner's benefit.
Posted Fri Oct 23, 2009 05:02 PM
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Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 04:55 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 06:15 AM
Sex is an awesome thing and it is a part of your relationship, you need to understand that. So enjoy sex, spend time with her, and your relationship will be great.
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 07:30 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 07:50 AM
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Posted Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:36 AM
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Posted Sun Oct 25, 2009 03:50 PM
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2009 08:11 PM
what a load of feminist bullshit.
dude, if you wanna have sex then do it. if you don't, don't. it's as simple as that. although i can't see why you wouldn't want to.
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2009 08:34 PM
From what I've read in this thread, this seems to be the most feasible answer. It makes the most sense given the situation.
Posted Mon Oct 26, 2009 02:52 AM
At your age, I used to have girls hanging around. All they wanted to do is make out. One particular one had a huge set of tits (my fetish), but I didn't have it mentally for her. A nice girl...but not totally appealing. And chasing me...a big turn off. So, I just did not want to get close to her...although I could have it any time I wanted. I wasn't ready to cement that relationship just cause I needed or wanted sex. Sometimes sex is used for a tool to change someone's mind...I wanted none of that. It was six years later I decided who I wanted...although that girl and I have always remained on a friend level.
I'd say you are smart to know what you want versus falling in the relationship trap at too young an age.